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Do you want to have children?

Do you want to have children?

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This might be interesting. Do you want to have children? Do you think it is a good idea to bring children of your own into the world and do you think that you would make a good parent?
 
At this point in life starting a family would not be practical,of course I'm not attracted to women much anyway

so the idea was never a good one anyway.

Other than that I know I would have made a great father, I have been involved in the lives of many a young person

and almost every one came back years later and thanked me for giving them my time.
 
This is holistically related to:

http://www.aspergic.com/index.php?/topic/253-abortion/page__pid__5709__st__20&#entry5709

Basically, I love the Platonic idea of a child, especially my own. In itself, it is inherently beautiful and purposeful, which is an intrinsic entirety already.

Of course, when that incorporeal Idea 'enters' into the body and tangibly suffers in a world of ignorance and denseness, although its metaphysical reality remains preserved, that's something else, often subject to greatly overwhelming sentiments. But life and its surprises are always welcome in this sense.

Come what may.
 
I want more than anything to be a mother, but that doesn't mean that I have to give birth to all (or any) of my children. It breaks my heart to know that there are unwanted children in the world, children who have no one to advocate for them. I love being around children of all ages and ability ranges--every child has such a unique and fresh way of looking at the world--and they say the funniest things!

I'm really good with kids. While I enjoy having conversations with people much older than me and have difficulty connecting with my peers, I feel most emotionally connected to the very young. I know how to balance what children want with their individual abilities and needs, and I have a proficient awareness of child development (it's actually one of my interest areas).

My biggest concern is being a parent to a teenager...
 
"While I enjoy having conversations with people much older than me and have difficulty connecting with my peers, I feel most emotionally connected to the very young."

IDEM, plus I also don't have to 'give birth' to all of my metaphysical kids, depending on worldly circumstances (or maybe not at all depending on them, surprisingly).
 
I never wanted kids when I was younger and didn't even consider it right up until recently. Willow was more or less the same... until recently. We want kids, but not for i dunno.. 10 years?

Not until we're properly set up with our lives. :)
 
When you're a lawyer and I'm a psychologist/therapist/counsellor, we'll have kids. :D

I'm not saying that as like...a joke or anything. We want to be those things so...when we are that will be when we're 'properly set up' so...yeah. :)
 
Nice goals you two, gl ;) I myself don't want to have kids until I find the right person to share my DNA with.
 
Cheers. :P I'm sure you'll find her one day.

Random Question: arfweeeed, are you Swedish or did you move there?
 
No.
I'm terrible with kids, don't want to be in a permanent relationship(sort of, but right now I just don't have any faith in guys[or girls(like you can be in a permanent relationship with a girl and get anywhere in life in this society anyway)]), I don't think it's fair to have a baby when the world's over-populated, I don't think it's fair to have a baby when there's loads of kids with no home, I don't think I'd be able to get far in the career I choose to pursue if I had a kid, pregnancy is a ***** etc.
TBH, the only reason I'd get pregnant would be to see my parents' faces, ROFL. Jk.
@Chris and Willow: That's awesome. You guys would be good parents imo ^_^.
EMZ=]
 
Hehe. Thanks. Maybe in 10-15 years time when the forum is ( :D ) still going, we'll be posting pictures of our first-born. :lol: :thumbsup:

*mental note of this post*
 
I chose maybe because I don't even know if me and my girlfriend should get a baby but i'm already praying and hoping that it will last long enough so we can start getting married and might consider having kids.

Only problem?

I don't know how she is going to have kids if she can't seam to handle psychical pain or when she is having a meltdown?
 
Yeah I do. When I'm older of course.
I'm hoping mid 20's but it depends if I have a long term boyfriend or not.
 
i wouldnt mind a kid, i kinda like the idea, i get on pretty well with kids and people quite a bit older than me, just not people around my age so the actual likelyhood of ever getting a girlfriend, let alone a long term one who would bear my child is so slim that its not worth thinking about, which is kinda depressing, but meh, cest la vie
 
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