Do you talk to your parents much?
I don't. In fact, I speak to my parents so little that they don't even "know" me. It's always been this way. They assume me to be simple-minded as I hardly speak around them. They speak to me in a very condescending way, yet they themselves aren't bright at all. I say the odd thing to my parents from time-to-time simply because they're family and family "must" speak to each other no matter what, right (lol)? I can't avoid them, but I wish I could - probably not completely, though. This may sound mean, but there isn't much for me to like about them. I don't share their views on many matters, they're interested in very different things than I am, their sense-of-humor is the opposite of mine and they have an overall very different outlook on life than I do. However, despite not "clicking" with them, I don't hate them - much. Kidding.
Lots of non-family members know me much better than my parents do. Hell, people from this board probably know me better than my parents do. My parent's notions about me are way off. I know that I'm viewed as being this naive imbecile when this isn't the case. People assume this about me because I go out of my way to avoid speaking to people or letting them know anything about me. Socially retarded people like us on the spectrum often are viewed as being imbeciles simply because we don't bother speaking much or letting anyone know anything about ourselves. The false way my parents and others view me actually doesn't completely bother me. If they view me as being imbecilic, all the better. If they view me as being imbecilic, they'll have lower expectations of me.
I don't. In fact, I speak to my parents so little that they don't even "know" me. It's always been this way. They assume me to be simple-minded as I hardly speak around them. They speak to me in a very condescending way, yet they themselves aren't bright at all. I say the odd thing to my parents from time-to-time simply because they're family and family "must" speak to each other no matter what, right (lol)? I can't avoid them, but I wish I could - probably not completely, though. This may sound mean, but there isn't much for me to like about them. I don't share their views on many matters, they're interested in very different things than I am, their sense-of-humor is the opposite of mine and they have an overall very different outlook on life than I do. However, despite not "clicking" with them, I don't hate them - much. Kidding.
Lots of non-family members know me much better than my parents do. Hell, people from this board probably know me better than my parents do. My parent's notions about me are way off. I know that I'm viewed as being this naive imbecile when this isn't the case. People assume this about me because I go out of my way to avoid speaking to people or letting them know anything about me. Socially retarded people like us on the spectrum often are viewed as being imbeciles simply because we don't bother speaking much or letting anyone know anything about ourselves. The false way my parents and others view me actually doesn't completely bother me. If they view me as being imbecilic, all the better. If they view me as being imbecilic, they'll have lower expectations of me.