It allowed me to put all my efforts (with support of my friend's family who 'adopted' me when my own parents were quite indifferent to my problems but thankfully they kept feeding me) to get an education and to start learning ways of life of 'inhabitants of Earth'.
That's sort of how I approach it, too. I relate very much to the AIs I've written about and their concepts of biological life relative to machines and computers, and I recognize that I handle things very differently from other people.
I felt relieved when I was able to relate myself to just somebody - even if they are robots. But they have clear reasons for their actions and simple feelings I could understand. And their 'faces' barely moved while they were speaking (or 'the face' could be mostly hidden behind a mask) - that fact calmed me down and let me notice other things in their appearance and interactions. And the fact that all the transformers are of different 'body' shapes and colours was delightful for me - although it took me some time before I started to distinguish them one from another.
I have prosopagnosia ('face blindness') and I never realized that before transformers helped me to distinguish persons one from another, they taught me that every person is different - in my life experience most people behaved much too similar in their treating me. So I was not able to notice that they differ one from another in other aspects.
I studied differences in personality traits of the transformers, I noticed what I like about one or another robot, then I started to analyze their motives and actions. I could not shake my doubt that I really got it right, and that was my main drive to speak to other humans who liked and watched Transformers on TV.
I really talked with remarks from 'transformers' - because I felt sure these phrases would be certainly understood by other people around me. Many teens from transformers' community did the same out of fun - so I was able to got accepted. And these kids were quite shy of their 'crush' on the alien robots - so they were mostly kind to everyone who shared their interest. I was just lucky to coincide with them temporaly (actually I do not feel like leaving my favourite seasons of 'Transformers' behind even now).
I was lucky that I managed to call a girl from the TF community I saw on one occassion and said to her: "Hello. I would like to talk about Transfomers?" She was astonished into silence, I do not even know if she recognised me, but she told me: "Well, do talk". And I did not give her many chances to interrupt my excited speech after that.
I'm so grateful she gave me this chance - and I rememer this as one of the best gifts I ever received.
I felt like I was about to burst if I didn't get a chance to tell somebody of my impressions and thoughts.
I learned to observe myself even during my jabbering (although I often feel disgusted with myself and with my acute need to share my thoughts and observations with somebody alive). So I managed to remember well my sensations and my inner condition to analyze them afterwards.
It's very unpleasant and emotionally painful job: to dissect my own motives, to analyze my wishes and the actions I took to fulfill them.
It's hard to watch myself being carried away by my thoughts and out of control, to let this knowledge about myself to 'sink in' despite my desire to appear as confident and indepentent as possible. It is the most important and difficult thing - to confess for myself the truth about what I really are. Instead of keeping push myself 'inside' to make the best appearance I could achieve (quiet and thus seemingly clever).
I'm working on "learning the ropes" better myself, but I often feel like I've hit a wall and psychology books or social skills training have nothing more to offer me. Strangers have been comfortable having coffee with me so I'm not some rude, smelly person who yells over everyone else, but I'm still living the way I am.
I think that is rather impossible to learn oneself without interactions with other people. It's like constant 'stirring' and questioning other people's words and 'labels' I collected about myself. And starting to form my own words and descriptions.
But it's necessary to measure one's own interest to learn and to have a safe place to cave in for reflection and to occupy oneself with something enjoyful and relaxing (some controlled interests). And most of all it's important to have one or several people who just accept me as I am (my friend's parents fulfill this role for me: they were not chokingly caring and scarily attentive to me, neither totally distant and indifferent. Just accepting me to come to their flat and be their daugther's friend)
After I got my own opinion on transformers' world, I started to work on extending it on real people around me (because human fantasy is not capable of creating anything that can really surpass being just a reflection of the real world and real people).
I went to a psychologist because I was in dire need to get confirmation that my sensations are right, that I really feel what I feel (and not what I learned I 'have to feel' or what I'm told I 'should feel'). There were these mixed feelings toward my mother and father, and to my sister and pretty much to just anyone I met and interacted enough to recall their 'impression' left on me.
I'm glad you were able to sort things out. I'm trying a new workshop that I hope will at least help me put my skills to better use and design a better plan.
I'm just on my own way. I think it's rather impossible to fully 'sort out' things. I constantly reconsider my guesses and thoughts. I often feel trapped in physical tension (of my body) and close to panicking mentally: where am I and how did I get here?
It's terrifying 'waking up' from my accustomed routines. I needed my psychologist to confirm to me it's normal - to be 'awake' and to realize the risks. Takes the hell of my mental consciousness to watch my trusted people' calm behavior and getting used to this presence of unpleasant things in life. This knowledge expands my own perception and it's painful before it settles. But once I've started I realized how long I run away from this and how much of my strengh I spent to ingnore these facts - because I was so fragile and vulnerable before I would have shattered if I saw them earlier.
First of all come my realising what I'm really doing (when I got used to hear 'wasting time'), what do I searching for in things that capture my attention - what my real interests in this world are.
Do I really want to be like Mother Theresa of I'm just putting all my energy to try and reach something other people say I can't?
Sorry for my blabbing, I really want to tell you I believe you'll find your own way to yourself