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Can't stop counting!

DNC24

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Does anyone else compulsively count the amount of time certain things take?

My biggest one is when I fill a container from the tap, such as a glass or water bottle. As soon as I turn the tap on, I can't help but count the seconds it takes to fill it up.

It's starting to really annoy me lately!
 
Hi and welcome to the forum.

That counting is something that one part of my mind has always done but I never found it annoying, quite the opposite, I often found it to be useful in many ways, especially when pressed for time. I know how long it takes me to do certain things which makes being organised a lot easier.

Different numbers always call up different associations for me too, especially when playing video games, if a score temporarily lands on a number that is a year I have been alive then it calls up memories of where I was and what I was doing in that year.
 
Does anyone else compulsively count the amount of time certain things take?

My biggest one is when I fill a container from the tap, such as a glass or water bottle. As soon as I turn the tap on, I can't help but count the seconds it takes to fill it up.

It's starting to really annoy me lately!
It can be a symptom of an obsessive-compulsive condition, but realistically...no harm done. If that's your "little quirk", I would just shrug my shoulders over that one. Folks who are blind have to count all the time...number of steps to locations, number of seconds to fill a glass of water, whatever.

It may be an interesting annoyance to you, but I am sure you've got "bigger fish to fry" in your life than that one little thing.
 
I do not count everything, but I time some things to accommodate multitasking. I regularly make peanut butter sandwiches for my wife & daughter. I found that the process takes about 5 minutes. So, if I am stuck in the kitchen for 5+ minutes, I knock them out.

I do not pay so much attention to time for non-routine activities, though.
 
I don't necessarily have a tendency to count things, but I tend to consider or compare things relatively more often with mathematical percentages.

Not really sure if this is due to my OCD or not. Especially given I spent many years in insurance. :confused:
 
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I do similar things, @DNC24. I rather enjoy it these days, but I didn’t always. Sorry to hear it’s annoying you. I think sometimes when these little compulsions get frustrating they actually occur much more frequently and aggressively.

It has taken a lot of practice, but when a compulsion starts to really bother me, I have to go through a series of mental steps to not worry about it so much. It’s like the more it is troubling me the more my mind teases me with it. I learned this to deal with violent intrusive thoughts, but it works for other thought compulsions, too.

A therapist taught me a visualization that I use that really helps. I imagine a pocket of methane at the bottom of a lake. The gas slowly bubbles out, rises to the surface of the water, and dissipates into the air above. Keeping the gas submerged in the water would be impossible, but I can allow it to rise and then just let the idea go.

That was a little hard to explain and I’m not sure that it would work for you, but the underlying idea could hopefully be helpful.
 
I count things a lot....seems oftentimes when I'm in resting mode I'm counting what I look at: tiles on the floor or wall; patterns, repetitions. Don't have any idea why I enjoy it.
 

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