I'm a looser guys Its nice to tell me otherwise but i'm 26 and in the same situation as a 16 yo , in my parents home doing nothing, it seems weird but this is how I need to think about my self If I want to get back on track, I dont know how to think otherwise.
I'v always had an all or nothing approach..
When I start exercing I spend hours looking at the exercices trying new diet and all, and If I dont do that I just do 0 exercice...
Same for video game, it's the thing iv enjoyed most in life; I was used to video game at an early age and after that everything revolved around video game for me after 10yo.
I got throught hightschool almost by accident and now im just stuck in life since 18 and I game away my life...
The thing is it doesnt make me happy as it used to be..it doesnt make me grow as a person anymore and I think i need to move on...but I can"t...
In addition, if I play a game I get obssessed by it, like I think about it non stop and this is also bad.
If you got the magic trick that would make me play just once in a week I would be happy but no i cant...
Its like food if I eat something good I just eat the entiere thing...iv always been like that...
I dont know how to organise my self at all neither.
To be honest, instead of worrying about much of this other stuff... I rather think your real focus should be on getting rid of that all-or-nothing approach.
I promise you this: if you hold onto that, it wont matter if you change your hobbies or interests or whatever. Your pain will remain, because that's exactly what that type of approach does to the people that truly embrace it. I've never encountered even one exception. Not one.
One way or another you need to find a way to outright *force* yourself to not do that. Wanna do a game? Time to add some sort of additional rule to it. Set an alarm that goes off after an hour or two. And when it goes of... you *must* stop and do something else.
But there's more to it than just that.
The OTHER thing you need to do is to stop telling yourself you cant manage it. The moment you do that... you've already lost the battle. Hell, you're coming on here and all I'm seeing is "I cant do this, I cant do that, I cant do anything" (yes that's not EXACTLY what you said, but it's the attitude behind it that's the same) and that's the direct opposite of the way you need to think. And note that word there: "need". I promise you another thing: If you DONT change your attitude, then you're right: You wont be able to do the things you need to do, because you'll have effectively poisoned yourself before you even start.
I've been where you are, I've gone through what you've described. I dont call myself "Misery" for nothing. But I was able to get through it, and the very things I describe here are why.
But there's one last thing you need to think about: The definition of being a "loser". The reason you're thinking like that is because this is what our braindead society has drilled into your mind. I actually see alot of gamers (and people into similar hobbies) that believe the same stupid thing. That BECAUSE they are gamers, they must be losers that suck at life. You know what? I've been a gamer since I was three (according to my parents). BECAUSE of this hobby... not in spite of it, but BECAUSE of it... I've had many things occur. For one thing, my reflexes and coordination are *fantastic* to the point of being very abnormal. My mental processing speed is also incredibly fast. I gained an interest in computers, learned alot about those. I made new friends. It even led to me travelling, entirely on my own, to go on certain trips... something I never thought I'd be able to do, but dagnabit, it happened, and I now do it frequently. I even had a chance to make and release a game, and I often work with developers for testing to help them out. In other words... it's been VERY beneficial (and fun).
And honestly? Chances are, you have gained/improved, via this hobby, some of the very same traits that I did. Traits that could lead you to very beneficial things. However... those traits will be repressed as long as your attitude remains as it is. This is a simple fact.
You dont need to rid yourself of any hobby, or anything like that if you dont want to, in order to accomplish what you want. And you CAN accomplish it. But it wont just happen for you. It's up to YOU to see that, and to change your attitude to allow yourself to make it happen. And if you give up now... I promise you, that regret will stay with you for a long, long time. So dont give up, and get rid of that defeatist attitude.
Now, as for the bit about organizing... feh, that part is overrated. I'm about as organized as a tornado, and I'm fine. I doubt I'm the only one in this place that can say that.