Cant Cope with people

[elements]

I have become so resentful of pretty much all humans and i never want to be around them as they all seem to have adapted these illogical traits! I have started noticing also that most dont care about one another at all but are only there for entertainment purposes pretending there is even the slightest care of the fellow human being, once you are no longer entertaining there dull minds they drift off, Or if you are not placating to there ego they discrete you, Oh i forget i was suppose to stroke your ego "oh so softy, and tell you are a good boy" and why cant i say what i really think? Everyone takes everything u say so personally when in reality im just speaking about the object at hand.
The fact that people cannot accept someone thats different then whats socially normal is also extremely aggregating. I want to go find a little island and sail into the water for the rest of my life. I cant take all these fake people!!

It aches me deeply how little everyone cares about one another, how selfish people are,how conditional people are and how fake it all is. There must be a magical place where people are not like this! lol

How do you all cope with this!?

 

[Gritches]

You cope with it by selling your house in Shouldland and moving into off-campus housing at Reality Check Tech.

 

[unreality]

I have a very difficult time being around people who are different than me, which is pretty much everyone out here, but I'm trying to be more understanding. I hope to one day buy a house on the outskirts of a small rural town and slowly work my way up to socializing with them. Another nice thing about rural is it's closer to nature. I really love animals and nature. To me they're more balanced, less fake, less judgmental.

 

[Beguiling Orbit]

There must be a magical place where people are not like this!

Ooh! Ooh! I know the answer to that one!

 

[Fridgemagnetman]

You cope with it by selling your house in Shouldland and moving into off-campus housing at Reality Check Tech.

Cheaper housing in shouldland. At least there should be.

How do you all cope with this!?

Years of practice.

 

[OlLiE]

avoidance of stressors, you can't change the world

either you accept it for what it is and you learn to live with it and you learn to deal with the fakes
or you reject the world as it is a you isolate yourself

not generalising, there are good people out there

if you believe a normal distribution/gauss curve governs large samples then:
a very few really bad people
a few bad people
a lot of average people good/bad
a few good people
a very few really good people

 

[Dreamer]

I understand you exactly. I've worked in customer service for nearly 10 years and am currently a cashier in the garden shop at Lowe's Home Improvement. When I started working with the public out of high school I was generally optimistic and could easily assume the "customer service act."

But as life happened I find it is becoming more and more difficult to assume this false persona. I'm getting to the point where I despise nearly everyone. I can barely smile and make small talk with the customers. My 9 yr old son is diagnosed on the spectrum and now that I'm reading all kinds of books about Autism I think I'm experiencing autistic burnout.

How do I cope? I dissociate a lot and distract myself with movies, shows, and other pleasures. But that, I know, is just a temporary fix to the problem. I know that I need a better paying job to help pay for services my son needs socially but I've been working here for 5 years and I'm afraid I'll tank if I quit and can't find another job.