Blamed!!!!

[icesyckel]

I get the same treatment. It's a constant issue with my husband. I think it's because I have a tendency to internalize everything my husband says as an attack against me, so I respond as such. My husband needs to learn to specify when he's mad AT me and when he's just mad in general and I need to learn to remind myself that it could be one or the other and to ask, so that I can catch myself before it turns into a tiff.

I either don't participate enough in conversation with my wife, or I talk too much. While she knows I have AS, and sometimes this alters her expectations, I am finding lately she is regressing into expecting me to be "normal." This results in me getting blamed sometimes no matter what I do.

 

[DMac]

I always say too much too loud for too long as a result it's all my fault always bummer

 

[acstar]

Yup always blamed for ANYTHING that goes wrong in the house as well.