Anthracite
Active Member
I can be if my mouth's running ahead of my brain, happens a lot with less common complaints where I've not memorised the socially acceptable script.
Going with the fat thing I'll usually try to tone it down to "pleasantly plump", or with people I know I'll tell them outright "stop worrying about your weight, you'll survive longer in a famine" (how's that for a back-handed advantage?). Sometimes though I do just have to stay quiet because I've had eating disorder after eating disorder, up and down and up again, and it can be a touchy subject for me personally.
Going with the fat thing I'll usually try to tone it down to "pleasantly plump", or with people I know I'll tell them outright "stop worrying about your weight, you'll survive longer in a famine" (how's that for a back-handed advantage?). Sometimes though I do just have to stay quiet because I've had eating disorder after eating disorder, up and down and up again, and it can be a touchy subject for me personally.