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I can often come across as boring and repressed. I think this is because in my masking I am often dampening down alot of my personality but I am not replacing it with anything else so its just coming across as like I have no personality.
For example I find situations where people are having fun and being silly really hard unless I'm very close with them because I'm not able to let my guard down and be the version of silly that would come naturally to me. I don't really know how to join in the fun "the right way" so I therefore don't really join in and seem boring.
Has anyone had success with either only dampening parts of their personality half way so as to still have a personality or having a separate fake but acceptable personality to join in with so as to not seem so repressed and lacking personality?
For example I find situations where people are having fun and being silly really hard unless I'm very close with them because I'm not able to let my guard down and be the version of silly that would come naturally to me. I don't really know how to join in the fun "the right way" so I therefore don't really join in and seem boring.
Has anyone had success with either only dampening parts of their personality half way so as to still have a personality or having a separate fake but acceptable personality to join in with so as to not seem so repressed and lacking personality?
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