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Behavioural Problems

Droopy

Droopy

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I had a visit to my local doctor not long ago to get a doctors line in relation to my AS diagnosis. This was just a regular GP and not the psychologist who diagnosed me so therefore the doctor doesn't specialise in the Autism Spectrum. Anyway, he was basically writing a line to explain I had AS and communication problems but one of the first things he put down was "behavioural problems". This got me thinking do people on the spectrum have issues with their behaviour and what does that mean specifically? Is it apart of AS/Autism?
 
Yes, it apparently is a part of AS. I see it as frustration or meltdown, but I am aware that those around me see it as irritability and anger issues.

My significant other is frequently suggesting that I have anger management issues, but according to therapists I've talked to I manage my "anger" well...I generally try to excuse myself and exercise or meditate when I'm feeling irritated. However, if I'm particularly frustrated and feel I'm not being heard, it is not unusual for me to throw things (generally just to get them out of my way) or curse at inanimate objects. Also, I feel that my lack of understanding NT's expectations can lead them to view me as "just being difficult" or apathetic. This can usually lead to arguments from a lack of understanding on both sides.

So, as an Aspie, I see it strictly as a communication or relational problem...but NT's see it as a behavioral problem.

I notice many things regarding behavioral issues and how to deal with them on various parenting sites dealing with ASD.:unsure:IMHO.
 
jaws said:
Also, I feel that my lack of understanding NT's expectations can lead them to view me as "just being difficult" or apathetic. This can usually lead to arguments from a lack of understanding on both sides.
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I've been in that situation before were I'm accused of "just being awkward". It's like they think I'm deliberately doing it for the fun of it.
 
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