I had always associated the term autism with the lower functioning end of the spectrum growing up because i simply didn't know there was a spectrum let alone a higher functioning end of the spectrum. To me at the time, even though rationally i knew from what mom said it wasn't true, i felt like being told i probably am am aspie meant that i was suddenly mentally retarded or innately stupid or some **** like that. Not to sound insulting, that's just how i felt. I felt like even though it sounded plausible - plausible enough to research in my free time - i felt like it simultaneously degraded and insulted me somehow.
It took all that research, and my coming on here, to get over that. Coming on here and doing lots of research on google showed me just how all encompassing aspergers is and just how well it explains pretty much everything about me. Seeing that and hearing everyone's experiences on here helped me to come to terms with it properly and fully accept it as not only a positive thing, but as a very helpful thing. For once everything made sense, for once it wasn't all my fault. I've never felt good enough, felt like i just never tried hard enough even when i knew i was, and that helped explain and validate that.