Ocarina
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Hello
Does anyone have any wise words on this subject? Aspergers in relationships and friendships can look very similar to avoidant personality traits typically demonstrated by individuals who have been deprived of love and affection in early years and have therefore never learnt how to be intimate relationships and frequently behave in ways that sabotage these relationships or feel fearful of commitment, intimacy and struggle to experience love. Alexythymia is a common feature of both.
I have an ASD diagnosis - as and adult, but I have often wondered if some of my typically aloof and cool behaviours are actually as a result of childhood trauma (which I did suffer) rather than simply autistic traits. Could be a mix of both.
This is an interesting paper comparing and contrasting the two in children - showing just how difficult they can be to distinguish.
http://www.aettraininghubs.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/5.4-Moran-paper-attachment.pdf
Does anyone have any wise words on this subject? Aspergers in relationships and friendships can look very similar to avoidant personality traits typically demonstrated by individuals who have been deprived of love and affection in early years and have therefore never learnt how to be intimate relationships and frequently behave in ways that sabotage these relationships or feel fearful of commitment, intimacy and struggle to experience love. Alexythymia is a common feature of both.
I have an ASD diagnosis - as and adult, but I have often wondered if some of my typically aloof and cool behaviours are actually as a result of childhood trauma (which I did suffer) rather than simply autistic traits. Could be a mix of both.
This is an interesting paper comparing and contrasting the two in children - showing just how difficult they can be to distinguish.
http://www.aettraininghubs.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/5.4-Moran-paper-attachment.pdf