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Where are these women and why aren't they crawling all over me?
I've been to the gym and it doesn't quite work like that. I used to go to Gold's and the women either workout with their husbands, or they are in the women section. Exercise forums are dominated by males.The area where I live is pretty bad. I do have a chance at college, since I'll be taking multiple fitness classes. I thing really, that is my only avenue to meet anyone at this point.That's hilarious! For me, risky behavior is not a turn-on at all. It may be interesting in the beginning for a few good times and some laughs, but I'm looking for someone who is more stable and reliable. Of course I would like someone in good health, but also since I'm interested in exercise and nutrition, I would also be attracted to a guy who is into these things as well.
Shiznown, I would think you could meet some single ladies at the gym or possibly find an exercise forum. You probably just need to broaden your horizons in order to have a chance at meeting someone that interests you. Isn't there a saying that "you have to kiss a few frogs in order to get a princess"?
Which studies? What defines "risky behavior"?I recently heard a show that talked about attraction between males and females. Studies show that females are attracted to males that display risky behavior. This is supposed to be from our primal instincts, that they seek out the strong male that will stand up to threats and protect them and their offspring.
Do you like kids? To be more precise, do you like their kids? If the answer is yes, then that would definitely be a turn-on.This is something I've been wondering for a little while. I've noticed, that women with kids are generally more attracted to me than women without kids.
Answering, because I felt like bumping the thread. I don't have any experience with kids, but since I made this thread I've had three women flirt with me all have kids lol. If I really fell for a woman who had a kid, I could learn to deal with it. I don't think I could handle her having more than one. I don't mean "deal with it" as in I wouldn't care for their kid, but that I could grow to be comfortable with the situation. My main concern would be still having time for my bodybuilding, reading and my other interests. It also depends on how old the kid is. Dealing with a five year old is easier than dealing with a baby whos diaper has to be change. I have bad OCD, so that would be a huge issue.Do you like kids? To be more precise, do you like their kids? If the answer is yes, then that would definitely be a turn-on.
Ah, yeah see I don't think I'd be good at being a dad. Well I think I would, but it would be very draining.Based on my observations, women often confuse masculinity with maturity.
And it could be just wanting that masculine/feminine balance for their kid's benefit. If they feel they are very feminine, they may see the gap that creates for their children.
And Shiz... five year olds are actually way more time consuming than a baby. Six year olds are even more atrocious. Babies are easy because they sleep a lot and when they're awake they mostly just want to be cuddled. Toddlers are even easy in a sense because you can always sit them down in front of some toys and they're good to go. 5-6 year olds though will talk to you until your ears bleed, and make extra sure to say your name repeatedly every few minutes until you answer JUST to ensure you're listening and haven't drifted off or started focusing on something else, LOL. At five it's mostly impossible to answer questions, at six it's telling you their vast stores of knowledge and ideas. And the messes... and fighting you about picking up their toys... the sloppiness... yeah, I have OCD too, and my six year old drives me INSANE a LOT. I have learned to live on Valerian Root just to keep my nerves from going raw, LOL. Oh, and ear plugs... God bless ear plugs... LOL.
Don't get me wrong, I love him to pieces, and he is a great kid that I take great pride and joy in. He's just very hard on me, more so than he ever was as a baby. And I have a three month old also to compare with. The three month, never a problem. It's always big brother that is stirring the pot, LOL.
Then they throw their toys at you ten minutes later and run away laughing maniacally as you try to get the spots before your eyes to fade.Toddlers are even easy in a sense because you can always sit them down in front of some toys and they're good to go.