Girl Anachronism
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Just an ask. I hear a lot about NT/Aspie relationships but I wanted to know if any Aspies here are in a relationship with another Aspie.
A general chat about love I guess
I have a wonderful partner (hate the word boyfriend; too juvenile) and we've been together for over a year.
Like me he can be quite neurotic. He presents himself rather well in social situations as he had earlier intervention but he has confided in me recently that he's just as unsure in social circles as I am.
I feel he may be milder (if that's a way I could put it) in his AS than me but it's noticeable enough.
He's obsessed with video games, computer technology (he builds computers as a hobby), music and 3D graphic art/animation. His love of computers, as well as his polite manner, has taken him to work at IT help desks and website development.
He dislikes pulpy juices (he describes them as 'unpredictable').
I guess one could describe us together as 'cute but intense'. I find that we are highly emotional (good, not bad) in our interactions though sometimes we can be in completely separate rooms and still feel together.
He has been a wonderful, mature force in my life. In social situations where I get HIGHLY nervous he is always willing to be my buffer. We have a lot of eccentric mutual friends which helps us out even more.
I have a feeling that he and I make a great team, so to speak, and it sometimes feels like we are in our own little bubble.
Affection has never been a problem as he and I have same preferences.
What about you? Please feel free to share your story (with permission of course). I'm quite curious and look forward to reading your responses
A general chat about love I guess
I have a wonderful partner (hate the word boyfriend; too juvenile) and we've been together for over a year.
Like me he can be quite neurotic. He presents himself rather well in social situations as he had earlier intervention but he has confided in me recently that he's just as unsure in social circles as I am.
I feel he may be milder (if that's a way I could put it) in his AS than me but it's noticeable enough.
He's obsessed with video games, computer technology (he builds computers as a hobby), music and 3D graphic art/animation. His love of computers, as well as his polite manner, has taken him to work at IT help desks and website development.
He dislikes pulpy juices (he describes them as 'unpredictable').
I guess one could describe us together as 'cute but intense'. I find that we are highly emotional (good, not bad) in our interactions though sometimes we can be in completely separate rooms and still feel together.
He has been a wonderful, mature force in my life. In social situations where I get HIGHLY nervous he is always willing to be my buffer. We have a lot of eccentric mutual friends which helps us out even more.
I have a feeling that he and I make a great team, so to speak, and it sometimes feels like we are in our own little bubble.
Affection has never been a problem as he and I have same preferences.
What about you? Please feel free to share your story (with permission of course). I'm quite curious and look forward to reading your responses