am i the olny aspy that relate to people sosidty throws out

[thermf5]

all the people i make any real connection with are outlaws in one way or another i just cant relate to most legit people cuz thay wont get where i am coming from

 

[Southern Discomfort]

Try us.

 

[thermf5]

i give every thing a shot i try to keep an open mind just have bad experiences with cercered forums that try to stay family friendly

 

[xudo]

i give every thing a shot i try to keep an open mind just have bad experiences with cercered forums that try to stay family friendly

Well with any luck this censored, family friendly forum will be one that you have good experiences with. Although I'd say this isn't overly censored, at least not to the point that others are.

 

[WildCat]

i give every thing a shot i try to keep an open mind just have bad experiences with cercered forums that try to stay family friendly

So what bad experiences did you have with these censored forums? There are rules in place here on AC that everyone is expected to follow for a reason...

 

[thermf5]

when people try to control me i get defensive and angry thats just who i am i do the same **** irl i almost got on the tsa ban list cuz some person with family values did not like what i was singing i told him i hope ur kids kill u that my frvte thing to say cuz i fantcyise abought killing my monther if there was a total break down of government

So what bad experiences did you have with these censored forums? There are rules in place here on AC that everyone is expected to follow for a reason...

 

[Southern Discomfort]

Well we all hate it when other people try to control us. Our response to the situation though is always in our control though, even if it's just a little bit. Do you feel comfortable with the idea of being the the person who has outbursts?

 

[Ambi]

when people try to control me i get defensive and angry thats just who i am i do the same **** irl i almost got on the tsa ban list cuz some person with family values did not like what i was singing i told him i hope ur kids kill u that my frvte thing to say cuz i fantcyise abought killing my monther if there was a total break down of government

That's not people trying to control you, that's about mutual respect. They will respect you, if you respect their rights to a family friendly environment. If on the other hand, you are singing offensive songs where people can hear them, you are imposing your tastes on them - that's not fair for their rights, either. It is a two-way street. And telling that person you hope their children kill them is very hurtful - you are seeking to control their feelings by hurting them. And killing your mother, that would be the ultimate in seeking to control another person. So I think the sooner you learn to respect other people, they will respect you.

 

[thermf5]

Well we all hate it when other people try to control us. Our response to the situation though is always in our control though, even if it's just a little bit. Do you feel comfortable with the idea of being the the person who has outbursts?

verble yes and actual fight only in self defense

 

[thermf5]

That's not people trying to control you, that's about mutual respect. They will respect you, if you respect their rights to a family friendly environment. If on the other hand, you are singing offensive songs where people can hear them, you are imposing your tastes on them - that's not fair for their rights, either. It is a two-way street. And telling that person you hope their children kill them is very hurtful - you are seeking to control their feelings by hurting them. And killing your mother, that would be the ultimate in seeking to control another person. So I think the sooner you learn to respect other people, they will respect you.

if thay mided there own bizness ie me my self and i then it would be respect the second u care abought some or want them to be some one there not ur actttck them

 

[Southern Discomfort]

verble yes and actual fight only in self defense

Well I get why you feel like that. I'm assuming you've been up against a whole host of people throughout your life taken offence at things you say. It's only natural for you to have a guard up constantly when you can't determine what might make an individual feel at home or upset them. It's either hate yourself because of what you can 'see' or come to terms with a bad situation and make it a part of yourself, right?

 

[thermf5]

Well I get why you feel like that. I'm assuming you've been up against a whole host of people throughout your life taken offence at things you say. It's only natural for you to have a guard up constantly when you can't determine what might make an individual feel at home or upset them. It's either hate yourself because of what you can 'see' or come to terms with a bad situation and make it a part of yourself, right?

i have come to trums with my self i just like to sing it helps my stress and anxiety

 

[Ambi]

I think that learning to walk the line between our own tastes, thoughts, desires, vs. respecting other people's in a shared space is really difficult. Especially when we are more tuned inwardly than outwardly than others, and on top of that, if we need to ramp up that sense by stimming in some way to make ourselves more comfortable in public (e.g. maybe why you wanted to sing that song?). But I think it is very beneficial to learn to find some other way to cope and just behave in public in a way that doesn't offend other people. But maybe this video will help explain how/why it's beneficial to start working on that:

 

[thermf5]

I think that learning to walk the line between our own tastes, thoughts, desires, vs. respecting other people's in a shared space is really difficult. Especially when we are more tuned inwardly than outwardly than others, and on top of that, if we need to ramp up that sense by stimming in some way to make ourselves more comfortable in public (e.g. maybe why you wanted to sing that song?). But I think it is very beneficial to learn to find some other way to cope and just behave in public in a way that doesn't offend other people. But maybe this video will help explain how/why it's beneficial to start working on that:

i was born an edge lord i will die an edge lord

 

[Alaska]

i was born an edge lord i will die an edge lord

I am not sure what you mean by that. If it means that you intend to walk the line and make an effort to fit in here, you will be fine here. Lots of children are members here and we want them to have a good and safe experience on this site. We appreciate new members who are willing to respect this.

We all forget and mess up with what we say here at times and the Moderators are tolerant and give us some time to adjust to the constant presence of children here. I have had a little difficulty remembering that all the time myself, but practice helps. If you want to, I am sure you can adjust also.

I hope you enjoy the site and the nice people here.

 

[xudo]

i was born an edge lord i will die an edge lord

When you say you're an edge lord, what do you define that as? Because I've always thought that that wasn't a good thing. I double checked with Urban Dictionary that how I thought 'edge lord' was defined was correct..and yeah, it was.

"Edgelord
A poster on an Internet forum, (particularly 4chan) who expresses opinions which are either strongly nihilistic, ("life has no meaning," or Tyler Durden's special snowflake speech from the film Fight Club being probably the two main examples) or contain references to Hitler, Nazism, fascism, or other taboo topics which are deliberately intended to shock or offend readers.

The term "edgelord," is a noun, which came from the previous adjective, "edgy," which described the above behaviour.
Nietzsche was an edgelord before it was cool."

 

[Fridgemagnetman]

When you say you're an edge lord, what do you define that as? Because I've always thought that that wasn't a good thing. I double checked with Urban Dictionary that how I thought 'edge lord' was defined was correct..and yeah, it was.

"Edgelord
A poster on an Internet forum, (particularly 4chan) who expresses opinions which are either strongly nihilistic, ("life has no meaning," or Tyler Durden's special snowflake speech from the film Fight Club being probably the two main examples) or contain references to Hitler, Nazism, fascism, or other taboo topics which are deliberately intended to shock or offend readers.

The term "edgelord," is a noun, which came from the previous adjective, "edgy," which described the above behaviour.
Nietzsche was an edgelord before it was cool."

There are also hedgelords on here. People who enjoy keeping their gardens look nice.

Sometimes what you give out you get back.
Sometimes you get what you don't deserve.
The wisdom is knowing the difference.

Reap and sow.

 

[HelzBelz]

I have already had a really uncomfortable experience with you today, so hope this can remain comfortable for everyone on here. When you told me you hope one of my kids kills me and that I 'just go and die' while in the chat room the few of us that were there found that overly aggressive. This is a very friendly helpful bunch of people, and although we all have our struggles and things that upset us, I hope you will respect others and be kind. If you are genuinely wanting input and suggestions, please, ask, and you will get plenty of support. If you're just hoping to upset and anger people, please go and do this elsewhere. We do not need that here.

 

[xudo]

There are also hedgelords on here. People who enjoy keeping their gardens look nice.

I think my neighbour is a hedgelord. He mows his lawn every other day. He's like...an extreme hedgelord.

 

[Southern Discomfort]

i have come to trums with my self i just like to sing it helps my stress and anxiety

Well that's good if it gives you positive emotions. I like to sing too but I'm not very good, windows crack if I try to hit the higher notes.

I imagine you've had at some point in your life given up trying to explain why you act in a certain way and just accepted yourself at being 'the bad guy'. Or maybe you just never learnt how to explain why you behave in a certain way. If you have a rocky relationship with your mother I'm assuming it's more of the latter.

You're here on this autism/Asperger's forum so you've accepted it at some point in your life so I'm guessing your bond with your mum wasn't broken or that. More like she tried to understand you by getting an autism related diagnosis but she had problems dealing with your heightened emotional response to certain stimuli.

Am I on the correct lines here?