When you say "fearing for your life" what prompted this fear?
I didn't fear for my life, I feared for my safety . I never thought I would be killed, just beaten, screamed at etc.
Ugh. That sort of occurrence right there is at the crux of what in fact does make me upset:
Their assumption of what emotion others are feeling and basing their interaction on an error. And then, they don’t believe you when you tell them otherwise.
That kind of stupid behavior is the main reason there are some people who I choose not to be around for more than 1 minute. I believe it is also, or can be, part of a narcissist’s tactics.
It sure is a narcissist tactic. Sometimes I don't know if malice is intended or not. I've unfortunately had to distance from a couple of formerly close friends because they started doing this (they didn't before).