Affective Deficit Disorder

[Ocean Swell]

I believe this topic is termed correctly. Who has the experience of learning of their Autism from their relationship. I now comprehend that my lady has developed conditions associated with Affective or Affection Deficit Disorder because of the lack of sufficient emotional connection as a result of my autistic qualities. It is uncertain that we will remain together. How have you succeeded or failed to grow or end your relationships?

 

[Judge]

I think what you're referring to is called "Affective Deprivation Disorder" or "Cassandra Affective Deprivation Disorder".

"Coined by researcher Maxine Aston, AfDD was first applied to partners of adults with Asperger Syndrome, many of whom showed disturbing physical and psychological reactions to the lack of emotional reciprocity they were experiencing in their relationship. Maxine was later to broaden AfDD's applicability to include disorders other than Asperger's such as depression, eating disorders, posttraumatic stress disorder, personality disorder, and substance abuse disorder in which the same low emotional intelligence or alexithymia is a key relational factor."

Affective Deprivation Disorder

 

[Bolletje]

For me, a lack of affection and emotional reciprocity for my partner is a sign of depression. When I’m in a good state of mind, my boyfriend feels more loved.