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Tony Ramirez

Tony Ramirez

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Single Aspie RSD NEET 48 From Brooklyn, NY
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  • Tony Ramirez
    I wish I can forget the worst years of my life college, training school, certificate school. (1995-1997, 1997-2000, 2003)
    And of course all of 2024.
    Tony Ramirez
    I wish I relive my junior high school years again (6th-8th grade 1988-1991). Best years of my life.
    tree
    tree
    Can you describe that time of your life? What made it good?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Being able to act completely myself without judgement. Opening socializing. Being greeted walking in by teachers and students by my nickname Tony. Going on trips in other cities states even overnight .
    Tony Ramirez
    The snobs are out in force today. No, thank you or even excuse me or even smiles, just resting faces. Just like damn college and trade school. If it's bad with the church in the park at 3 PM, I am not leaving the damn house for a week. I mean it.
    Tony Ramirez
    Being happy and positive these 4 days did crap to please these ungrateful's.i was still shamned ostracized over talked uninvited and left out
    Tony Ramirez
    I'm swearing again.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I looked im lost without help I asked but that was a waste of time
    tree
    tree
    Have you ever actually contacted a resource/place yourself?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    No not yet. My mother is talking to me. Things at home are fine. These friends pumped crap in my head making me think I am normal just socialize instant gf walk in a place get a job etc. then they contradict themselves
    Tony Ramirez
    I started to swear again when I was ignored and having two word conversations with certain people again. It was building up these past few days
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    But you will still be singled out. Game night is turning into dudes night. Only the two hosted are women. Every newcomer is a dude. Also I am feeling more unwelcomed everytime I go. Do what you want to do. UK and US culture is practically the same now.
    T
    thejuice
    Yes there is a lot of American cultural import here, inevitably we start adopting it.
    T
    thejuice
    Tony Ramirez
    I am obsessed with watching ASMR videos of women on YouTube.
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    T
    thejuice
    I don't like the whisper because of my sensory sensitivities but I can see the appeal. We are in a touch and kindness starved society, a bit of personal attention could do lonely people good. It's at least the illusion of someone caring for you.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    She is now my favorite.
    T
    thejuice
    No whispering 😍
    Tony Ramirez
    Whenever I say 'Hey' to anyone I am always ostracized by them everytime. I try to stop doing it but sometimes it happens without me realizing it.
    Raggamuffin
    Raggamuffin
    Perhaps try and meet a simple glance with a smile. If they smile back, then perhaps introduce yourself.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    That's what I have been trying to do in social events. I did it today at a volunteer event that was being hosted I passed by. I did sign up to see if I can involved BTW.
    Tony Ramirez
    Good riddance to that past textationship. New season. Two new places too accept heal not push and accuse people.
    Tony Ramirez
    IRL dreams that are 100% happening in my life are making me sleep all night. It's the 1% odd dreams that would wake me up and keep me up for hours.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Like the recent dreams that I went outside without an umbrella was mad and got wet no one cared. It was at the cafe and was ignored. Slept like a baby after.
    Tony Ramirez
    When I had a meltdown after church feeling ostracized I was actually told by S and a new friend she said I was not being ignored that I am the most noticed and welcomed person there.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    S was the first person to talk to me at game night to find the new church BTW. Told them I am autism. Accepted. New friend is also ND with don't want to disclose.
    T
    thejuice
    I think the truth is somewhere in between. Probably a lot of times you are included, but occasionally excluded which hurts a lot (almost like a death). With our mind's negative bias, those times we are hurt are amplified, especially if were on a downward mood swing.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Sav you know her name from the DM says I was always included. I am the most noticed person. I told them personally my past college young adult I was ignored. She even forgot to say goodbye at the cafe then apologized after. Not the first time other women did that a few times this past two weeks.
    db05
    Hey Tony, have you ever tried Hiki? Dating app for autistics. Personally, I hate that stuff and would love nothing more than to get rid of my cell phone, but maybe it could help you meet a nice autistic girl? Maybe even having the same frustrations as you are.

    Hiki | Autism, ADHD, Neurodivergent Dating App & Social Community
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I sure as hell have not meet a single one in the 20+ places I wasted my life socializing the past 5 years there were fakers that were really neurotypical and I thought were ones until I saw them talk and socializing then they were definitely neurotypical.

    I'm petrified trying online dating cuz I know I will get no responses.
    T
    thejuice
    Online dating is a waste of money and time for most men
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