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Metalhead

Metalhead

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Metal health will drive you mad! 46 From Bedlam
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  • Metalhead
    I made a fancy turkey and havarti sandwich for lunch today, but I left it in my fridge at home and now I am starving during my lunch break. LOL.
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    Metalhead
    Metalhead
    It won't be there for very long once I'm home.
    MildredHubble
    MildredHubble
    It will taste all the better when you get home! Deferred gratification :-)
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    What a rich sandwich! That is why I enjoying preparing turkey for Thanksgiving . . . leftover turkey for sandwiches, casseroles, and soups. I don't discard the carcass until I use it for turkey broth.
    Metalhead
    My back hurts but at least now I have reached the point where I no longer feel the need to utter four letter words when a pain spasm comes.
    Metalhead
    So the sex trafficking “massage spa” half a block away from my office finally got shut down by the police. About bloody time.
    Metalhead
    My boss is now willing to negotiate a new schedule for me with longer shifts and fewer days, meaning less time per week on that horrid commuting experience.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    What's your feeling about this? It's hard for bosses these days. You could probably do just as well somewhere else. However, you would have to be emotionally ready to make that jump.
    Metalhead
    Metalhead
    My boss is apparently willing to consider this for the time being. No yes or no answer yet. She also offered to buy me a new office chair with better back supports using the office funds.
    Metalhead
    Friends are encouraging me to quit my job and move ASAP, family and coworkers are telling me to keep my job and stay, I am more inclined to listen to my friends now.
    Metalhead
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    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Boy, a narcissist and musical genius. But definitely Kanye has bipolar, that results in grandiose feelings. I have encountered that in my ex.
    Metalhead
    Death seems preferable to keeping up how I have been. Now is the time for me to put my foot down and make changes in my life.
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    Sounds like you are choosing living... a life of growth and change toward happier. You can do it. Keep moving forward. Wishing for encouraging winds at your back.
    Metalhead
    I feel like going to Buffalo Wild Wings and having a large plate of spicy goodness. Maybe I’ll bribe one of my friends into driving me there by offering to buy him some.
    Metalhead
    Life, to me, is made up of a job I dislike, a commute I dislike, and lots of television watching and game playing. I want a drastic change to break all of this up. This is not living.
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    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Sorry you were at that point. How much of life are you missing out on? Stuck in emeshment patterns of family BS?
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    It's scary to step out of ourselves, but, l am here to tell you, l moved across the entire coast. It was scary and rough, but l survived. And l am in my 60's now. I am so glad l did this.
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    @Metalhead, you will find your resilience, I know you will. Things look grim right now, but they will not always be this way. You can rise and get back to good.
    Metalhead
    I wish I had a jaccuzi, a massage chair, heated seats on public transit, my own private massage therapist, a winning Powerball ticket to afford all of this is the key I need.
    Metalhead
    I wish I could afford legitimate massage therapy right now.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Thai massage. They are so great. Or warm stone massage. One place put stones on back, then kneaded with the stones.
    Metalhead
    I wish I had a massaging chair at home. A heated massaging chair. That would be very nice.
    MildredHubble
    MildredHubble
    I have a kinda massage cushion thing you fix to a chair. It has roller things in it that spin and are heated too. It's ok, probably not as good as a proper massage chair but it's good if you are on a budget :-)
    Metalhead
    I feel like getting Thai food for dinner tonight. I think I will treat myself to a night out by myself. Dinner and a trip to a bar with a band where I can sip soft drinks and enjoy the music.
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    Enjoy! A few days ago my spouse was cooking a coconut soup thing. I helped with the spices - Lemongrass, kaffir lime leaf, a hot chili and galangal. The secret in using Lemongrass is to bruise it first. We had it with bean thread vermicelli.
    Metalhead
    I wish I had a bowl of that nice spicy seafood stew I get from this nice Thai joint I sometimes visit in Seattle.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    That sounds so good. I could spend the rest of my life at a Vietnamese, Italian, or Thai place. Maybe Japenese, or a great Jewish Deli. :)
    Hazel_1914
    Hazel_1914
    Yum. Sounds good. Are you going to cook something nice for your dinner?
    oregano
    oregano
    Sacramento doesn't have enough Jews to support a Kosher deli, sadly. We do have lots of Hmong, so Thai groceries are fairly common since after the Vietnam Wars ended they spent years in refugee camps in Thailand. Thai is way too spicy for me, but lots of people love it.
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