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Recent content by Metalhead

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    I wish I knew.

    I wish I knew.
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    So, on the way to the bus stop, I threw up and a lot of it got on my work shirt, but I did not...

    So, on the way to the bus stop, I threw up and a lot of it got on my work shirt, but I did not have time to go back home to change it. Then my bus was 20 minutes late - over half an hour of standing in the drenching rain. I am wearing my jacket zipped up at the office to hide the state of my...
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    How can I have a more positive year for 2026?

    Move to Puyallup and go to metal shows with Metalhead.
  4. Metalhead

    All I want for Christmas is for Mariah Carey to shut up.

    All I want for Christmas is for Mariah Carey to shut up.
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    It means turning off the Internet and reading a novel.

    It means turning off the Internet and reading a novel.
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    Tron Ares has one of the best film scores I have ever heard.

    Tron Ares has one of the best film scores I have ever heard.
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    What are your goals for 2026?

    I have a few solid goals to work on. Budget for more weekend solo trips to Seattle. Go to more local gay munches and build more of a social life with other local gay men. Lose some more weight. Curb the negative thought loops in my head and replace them with intellectual stimulation. What...
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    That's acute response.

    That's acute response.
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    If you feel cold, stand in a corner where it's always 90 degrees.

    If you feel cold, stand in a corner where it's always 90 degrees.
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    What kind of eater are you?

    I am an omnivore, although I did have to make some adjustments to my diet after I got diagnosed with both gout and GERD. What kind of food consumer are you?
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    How do you feel about the holidays?

    I have come to hate Christmas due to the family memories attached to those gatherings. Staying home and smoking weed is preferable to going to my family Christmas.
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    I think I am going to do a digital detox this weekend.

    I think I am going to do a digital detox this weekend.
  13. Metalhead

    What was the last thing you cooked?

    Curry rice.
  14. Metalhead

    I feel like a loser.

    Markness, you keep telling me I am not a loser when I talk like that. Time to tell yourself you're not a loser. It's easier to tell that to others, I know. But be kind to yourself. You are worth it.
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    I wish I could shower myself in Benjamins, clean my body with hundred dollar bills, be filthy...

    I wish I could shower myself in Benjamins, clean my body with hundred dollar bills, be filthy freaking rich. OK, maybe I am not being serious here. I just want to be able to afford to buy steak again.
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