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Tony Ramirez

Tony Ramirez

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Single RSD Aspie Needs Major Help 48 From Brooklyn, NY
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  • Tony Ramirez
    I am tired of attractive woman giving me mean stares.
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    Judge
    Judge
    They're the ones you don't want to approach under any circumstances. Odds are that those looks aren't personal, but they are intentional. Reminds me of a really attractive woman I once worked with, who always arrived at work with a horrible scowl on her face. She said it was to keep the guys at an arm's length...and apparently it worked well for her.
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    Aryana
    Maybe your interpreting the way these women are looking at you. why you would think they were giving you mean stares? Did you do something that would make them stare at you in that way? Doubtful !!
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    Aryana
    I wouldn't give a mean look even if they did something to offend me. Unless these women think they are better than everyone. Those type of women might , but these are the type of women who are not worth your time.! Stay positive. You will eventually meet that right
    Tony Ramirez
    My bad attitude is back in full force again.
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    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    I understand a cold heart. But, mine has given me trouble. I want to unfreeze it forever… if I can.
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    Tony, you are letting externalities control your thinking. You need to look inward for validation and be that person you would like to be in a relationship. Have you looked into activities that may be attractive to single women: Bicycling/Outdoors, Cooking lessons, Educational programs?

    I do not know if you are even in the right frame of mind to connect for and maintain a relationship.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    That's so true. Finding a passion and doing it.
    Tony Ramirez
    I hope tomorrow is a better day. This weekend sucked.
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    I hope so too, for you. Bad days in the past don’t have to determine tomorrow. Maybe tomorrow will be better.
    Tony Ramirez
    A woman said hi to me at church during the greeting. I said hi back but then walked away because she was next to a guy and what looked like her parents. I sat some place else because I knew it was her husband and I was not in the mood to hear my husband come out of her mouth.
    Tony Ramirez
    Sorry being such a grouch today but I just had such a long lonely day today. I really felt it today. I will try to be more positive since I am not going out no more today.
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    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    What a beautiful cat on your profile. Those eyes.
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    @Tony Ramirez
    Have you ever considered that these people are sharing
    their experiences not to torment you, but because they
    are happy? And believe that hearing a story about meeting
    might illustrate how relationships may begin?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    It feels like torture to me. Because no matter what I do I can't seem to achieve it.
    Tony Ramirez
    Topiramate is not helping with my depression today. Neither is yoga or exercise, maybe it's the constant reminder of relationships for everywhere except me.
    Tony Ramirez
    I'm so lonely. My so called new friends ditched me today. I went to the gym but that was lonely and there was a couple there exercise around me.
    I'm at Cobble Hill Park where I am 100% ignored by everyone and there are couples here too.
    Tony Ramirez
    How can I attempt to even ask a woman out for a coffee date when they mention a boyfriend or a husband when I get to talk to them? Kind of ruined it. Embarrassing.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Sorry. I fail alot too in relationships.
    Tony Ramirez
    A woman told me after yoga class that I inspired her to come back to do more yoga due to me coming every morning to class.
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    That would have felt so good to me. It shows that your consistency and dedication at the yoga studio has been noticed.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Too bad she has a husband.
    Tony Ramirez
    Back at the gym now. It feels good seeing things back to normal again. Got scared this week. Even got good sleep last night.
    Tony Ramirez
    I did get wished a happy birthday by all the yoga students today even the nice attractive woman next to me. I said thank you to her.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tunnel vision kicking in again woman I wanted to talk to in yoga finally talked to me. Was going good until she mentions a husband yet again falls into the 95% taken woman. I was still polite and talked to her but yet again all woman have boyfriends or husbands.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    That's true. All the nice ones I meet except for two in my life groups that said they were single the rest all have husbands or boyfriends.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Also she knows a lot of woman. She makes friends with other yogis women easily. To gather with them to do yoga. I can only dream.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Also forgot to say she said I inspired her to come to more classes when she saw me come every morning.
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