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Tony Ramirez

Tony Ramirez

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Alone Aspie grapples fear of unlove and rejection 48 From Brooklyn, NY
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  • Tony Ramirez
    New medication doctor put me on because of my latest meltdown seeing face masks made me sleep today until 3 pm. Still made it to the gym but I am always tired.
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    @Tony Ramirez

    Is the person you refer to a "this quack doctor" also your therapist?
    Or is your therapist someone else?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    No he is my medical doctor.
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    He can hardly be expected to be doing psychotherapy with you then, can he.

    Work on this with your therapist.
    Medical doctors administer to the physical; psychotherapists to the mental/emotional aspect of a person.
    Tony Ramirez
    This is my third day at the gym. I could not do as much of a workout today. I hope I am not overdoing it. I have yoga tomorrow morning but I am going to the park in the afternoon instead tomorrow.
    Tony Ramirez
    I weight myself when I got home. I am now 308 lbs. I lost 4 lbs since I started to working out besides yoga last week.
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    Have you changed anything about what you eat?
    Tony Ramirez
    I had a violent outburst at the clinic and I broke the glass window.

    I was thinking about Kyle and how he has what I want without trying while I been going for four years. The face masks amplified my pain.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I went to the elevators but then there were two people getting off wearing masks then I broke the glass.
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    I’m glad you didn’t hurt the people. Do you think there was a risk of that?

    Also, do you feel calm now or not yet?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Did yoga tonight. I did feel stressed at first as the class was packed all women but they kept to the self's and left fast. I talked to my yoga teacher after.
    Tony Ramirez
    My conversations with single woman last about 10 seconds. Taken woman they can go on over 5 minutes.
    MildredHubble
    MildredHubble
    Have you tried finding a group that focuses on your interests? Like say if you were into photography, finding a group that meets to share their enthusiasm? I'd imagine you could talk for hours to women who share your interests! Even if they are in a relationship, they will likely have single friends. Having a reason to talk at length, I suspect, is the thing you are lacking here.
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    @Tony Ramirez
    It sounds like you have different expectations for conversations.
    You aren't as concerned with making an impression on the females
    who are in relationships, so you aren't as anxious talking with them.
    Tony Ramirez
    Can't wait to do yoga this morning again.
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    Mary Terry
    I bet you're getting into good shape. Being physically fit feels great, is healthy, lifts your mood and can extend your life. Keep it up, Tony!
    Tony Ramirez
    Even men who can barely speak English can talk to woman for a conversation why I can't even last more than 10 seconds.
    Tony Ramirez
    I embarrassed myself again trying to talk to a woman from church I barely know. What do I bother? Autism ruins everything.
    Tony Ramirez
    Sorry I been a negative nanny again. The yoga studio has been closed so I have not done yoga in three days. It's hard.
    Tony Ramirez
    I made an arse out of myself trying to talk to a woman I don't know well last night.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    It just that that ugly guy I will call Ky and his new close girlfriend I will call B only met two weeks ago while I been going for 4 years sat behind me. This woman I will call her K use to be in J's life group, so I tried to talk to her but embarrassed myself after.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Yes, you're right. I hate stuck up snobs. The problem is they are the only few that are single while the nice girls are all taken.
    Tony Ramirez
    I went to a park event this morning at church. I was literally the only single person there. It was full of couples and kids. I left after a half hour for the two-hour event.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    So true. Especially when I thought I meet a single woman at group just to find out she is married, and her husband is so annoying. He talks so much interrupting you that I get a headache after a while.
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