I don't regret having the hysterectomy because I would rather be dealing with this than crippling pelvic pain. But I feel so overwhelmed all the time. I just sent another message to my doctor literally this morning asking to check in again about this issue, so I'm not ignoring it or accepting it. It's hurtful for me too.
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Aspychata
Luca, your path is rough right now. So no need to apologize, we do support one another and there is sincerity and kindness shown when we do stumble from almost everyone one. I am sorry for being perfectly ridiculous at times. Sometimes l think Enzo has a higher IQ then me.
Outdated
I have not yet found anything you've said to be offensive or insulting and I enjoy your sense of humour. You seem to think a lot worse about yourself than everyone else does. I hope that as your body settles down and gets used to it's new reality you can find your self confidence again, People here like you.
AprilR
Hugs. Dealing with strong, intense emotions is hard, and in your case it must be doubly so. I hope your doctor can help you feel better also.
Prometheus
You are very polite. I'm sure nobody here thinks you have done anything wrong.
Prometheus
Well, that's real, you are always a responsible poster, I see no controversy from you. I mean, everybody gets emotions...I saw you post some photos, You look like a normal, nice person. I'm baffled you say menopause though, You looks so young! and Healthy. I agree with Moog 100%
maycontainthunder
You and I are alike Luca. I get worried I've offended someone quite often. Dog V4 sends hugs and unexpected cold noses.
Rodafina
This probably deserves a proper message and not a profile comment but I’m going for it anyway…
Rodafina
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The truth is we have all done some things wrong. Every single day we do things wrong and we do things right. Some of us mess up on occasion and it affects each other. If you feel that you have messed up, that’s okay. If you feel that you have done things well, that’s good too. We have all done both.
The truth is we have all done some things wrong. Every single day we do things wrong and we do things right. Some of us mess up on occasion and it affects each other. If you feel that you have messed up, that’s okay. If you feel that you have done things well, that’s good too. We have all done both.
Rodafina
I agree with what Outdated said. There is no evidence to us where you have said these horrible things. Could this be the self deprecation coming back?
If you trust us, you can run some of these things by us for a second opinion, because we all know we will be kinder to you then the narration in your mind is. We all seem to do that to ourselves. Always harsher on ourselves than we would be on anyone else.
If you trust us, you can run some of these things by us for a second opinion, because we all know we will be kinder to you then the narration in your mind is. We all seem to do that to ourselves. Always harsher on ourselves than we would be on anyone else.
Rodafina
There is no evidence that you have hurt anyone. Over the last few days there’s some evidence that you have been hurt.
You expressed this and it is very meaningful to people and it made them care.
You expressed this and it is very meaningful to people and it made them care.
Atrapa Almas
I have never seen an offensive line written by you. People here dont get offended by others having their own views on life. If you have problems believing you are not offensive, you can bring some examples of "offensive" lines and make a pool or ask for feedback. That way you can get an idea of what we may find offensive.
Atrapa Almas
Also when people is hurt/offended, they usually write back to tell you that you crossed a line. I am said that from time to time, so I know that I ocassionally hurt others. But nobody ever tells you "Hey Luca, you hurted me", so you need not to worry.