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Tony Ramirez

Tony Ramirez

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  • Tony Ramirez
    My wife, my husband, my boyfriend even here I have to read that crap.
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    Wouldn't it be amazing if you could somehow work through
    your negative outlook so that you weren't constantly reacting
    this way? Being jealous takes a lot of energy.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    It does but it's all over my mind. I can't stop thinking about jealousy, regret and I have constant reminders of both.
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    Things to work on with your therapist.
    Tony Ramirez
    I had it up to here being around couples and women with boyfriends.
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    Plus, you figure single guys are worthless to you because they
    aren't a means toward getting yourself a female.

    Hey, wait. If you figure single guys are worthless, and you're
    a single guy, that sounds like you figure you're worthless, too.

    And you're angry about that.
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    Steelbookcollector217
    I mainly feel that way when I see couples in a certain age range especially teen and 20 something couples
    Tony Ramirez
    Life group just started. A new woman showed up was happy until she said her boyfriend. Go ahead roast me I don't give a damn.
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    From what I've seen you saying, all the love
    belongs to somebody else. And you've got
    none.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Correct.
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    There's more than one way to look at that.
    I think your main focus is that no girl offers love to you.
    Tony Ramirez
    After poring out my heart on Facebook I get two friend requests from married women. No thank you. No wonder why I barely use Facebook. All I get is friend requests from couples.
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    In fact, nobody in the past week has stood in front of you and said,
    *Look at me. I'm so much better than you. You're just a loser.* Have they?
    Nobody.

    It's you telling yourself that.
    Why be so mean to yourself?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Since my high school and college days I was always mean to myself. I used to think that girls ignored me even though they said hi to me I used to run away.
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    Carrying on the tradition of telling yourself mean things makes you feel bad.
    Unless you're enjoying feeling bad, why do it?
    Tony Ramirez
    I regret not going to Church today. My back hurts and my uncle said it was going to rain. It ended up raining much later. The weather on the news is wrong more than its right.
    Tony Ramirez
    A pretty woman asked if I am okay while sitting on a stoop most likely working at the restaurant. She was very friendly. I am starting to realize all woman are not snobs.
    Tony Ramirez
    Uplifting Trance music sometimes makes me cry.
    Raggamuffin
    Raggamuffin
    The sign of a good song. Or a sorrowful state of mind. I cry whilst listening to music fairly regularly, and it's because of both of those reasons.
    Crabcore
    Crabcore
    Music really is powerful like that. I think it's magic
    Tony Ramirez
    All woman have boyfriends or are married in Brooklyn, NYC well at least in my neighborhood. :mad:
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Also it would be embarrassing to talk to a woman then get rejected because she is married or has a boyfriend.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Reading the comments here from the same people I think many of you don't really have autism.
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    Why do you expect the world to gift you a woman? You need to bring value to a relationship as well as advocating for yourself by approaching them. That is the way the world works and you are no exception.
    Tony Ramirez
    I have blurred vision. Glasses are not helping much. Hope it's temporary.
    Crossbreed
    Crossbreed
    See your eye doctor, but allergies do that to me from time-to-time.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I was out today so it's probably allergies.
    Tony Ramirez
    I just got a call from a friend at Church after reaching out. She says that I am not cursed. I also reached out to another friend, and she said the same thing and gave me support. These were not from my couple friends. So I am not lonely I guess people with ASD feel lonely when they are not.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tired of hearing from the same people why it's all my fault I am single and only have couples as friends.
    DogzSpirit
    DogzSpirit
    Female here. People point out that I don't have girlfriends. They tout their friendships they have, most of which are actually fair weather, walk on eggshells, or superficial at best. I have male friends, but they say that doesn't count. Geeze give me a break. I am choosy in friendships, and expect to be myself without masking. Some accept that, and some do not. PS Being married is not the end all.
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