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Recent content by taruga

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    I can't cope being a single parent

    Weirdly I just came across information that states what not "parenting style" to follow and I learnt that children do do behaviours to manipulate their parents not to go somewhere. I never expected this to be a thing . However in reading the comparisons it has actually made me realise how...
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    I can't cope being a single parent

    So I'm writting here again just to update and speculate my ideas looking for answers. I've just had my aspergers diagnosed. I'm feeling massive relief but also in shock . I'm expecting some kind of massive whiplash as I'm feeling a bit shaky inside but it's all been driven by the amount of...
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    I can't cope being a single parent

    Thank you for your replies and input . As already mentioned the toileting was a result of time at dad's... before that and "his help" poohs were a funny thing then something happened. I don't know what!! Every time she came back our relationship and my ability to cope with her behaviour...
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    I can't cope being a single parent

    Oh and I didn't spot the page two. I apologise. My daughter is a clever girl so bribes don't work often. She just tries to get them without doing the thing or decides she can do without if she really doesn't want to .
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    I can't cope being a single parent

    My daughter can count to 40 . She knows how to use the toilet but chooses not for a pooh. Apparently something to do with looking themselves and not wanting to let go .... when she used to go to dad's I'm not sure what or how but he often would neglect the fact she popped just before sleep and...
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    I can't cope being a single parent

    And This is how I know I posted in the right place . But also yes dispute all my reasons for wanting abortion my sister who yes I looked up to and trusted their opinion and well just like that figured they knew more then me so when they tell me it's not like that and it'll be different...
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    I can't cope being a single parent

    Its only recently that I learnt that this is what happens and that actually people manipulate like they do. And this is because I learnt via her dad and through therapy . It's made me uncomfortable in everything I do , my sexuality I've come to terms with as gay but always find flirtation...
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    I can't cope being a single parent

    Thank you for your lovely reply . If my sister that said she would support me was around I would ask but she's never babysat for me once despite her promises to help me not feel like this. These were some of my main concerns and why I wanted abortion. My other sister helps when poss but she...
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    I can't cope being a single parent

    Most days it's me and my daughter. It makes me sad , I can't cope she no longer sees her dad as I believe he was doing more harm than good. My break comes when she's at nursery but that causes just as much time anxiety and people anxiety with the times she goes in n out . I'm struggling with...
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    HAPPY BIRTHDAY...EVERYBODY

    :) :)
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    Anyone here an artist?!?

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    not sure what to do or think.

    Thankyou for the advice. I was cleared of having a personality disorder but I have a feeling they are going to try and put that on me again . the problem is that I dont think they are going to let me see the aspergers people for assessing again. I beleive understanding isdefiantly key to this...
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    A unique artist with a gift

    :) thats some great shiz!
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    Anyone here an artist?!?

    For all you pattern lovers xxx lifes full of mistakes xx
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    not sure what to do or think.

    Lost my flow and hit the button, freaked to myself and was unsure I could write anymore of my problems. There is a lot. Like recently I discovered that I didn't talk till I was two. I'm just confused how to act on this because my health visitor would like me to go so I can get help that...
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