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Recent content by Scaramouche

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    Back to Aspiescentral

    Good day to all. I suddenly disappeared from this site several months ago - but I think that a good communication with understanding people would be useful to me. For the last months there was several changes in my life: 1. I started to participate in a psychotherapeutic group - for...
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    School Dances

    Yes I have such issues when being in school. After the first time on the dance party (I was 12 years old) I felt like drunk, extremely anxious and my head was empty. Although didn't danced this time (as I can't) I felt like I danced several hours - very tired. That time I think that I simply...
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    Problems with phones

    Have a similar problem. This is too difficult for me to make a call and I need to plan carefully the scenario of the conversation - this may take up to 2 hours. When I have to call somebody - even my friend or girlfriend - I usually plan this call. For example I called my past girlfriend...
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    What Type of Thinker Are You? Quiz

    My: A - 1 B - 3 C - 4 - associative visual thinker D - 2
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    Visual Thinking

    I usually think visual for understanding the abstract things, such as time. For example I see a workweek as a symmetrical sheet with 2 columns and 3 rows (from monday to saturday) and if I know that this is monday today I visualise it as a cell in 1-st row and 1-st column. I also see the year as...
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    Pets?

    Our family had a cat, but she died about 12 years ago(( I prefer cats, as my mother - they are really cute:) Now we have a pair of a giant african snails - really don't know could be these creatures called "pets" (in US these snails considered dangerous pests).
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    Comment by 'Scaramouche' in 'Immigration Is Not The Way Out'

    A great post. Geordie. I also thinked about immigration to EU or USA and thinked that this would be better to work as a dishwasher in a small American beerhouse and have a valuable income and good living conditions than living in Russia, working as a lecturer or scientist and having a...
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    Aspies and Marriages

    Yes, I agree - women also have a difficulties due to a traditional view on the wive's duties. But I also noticed that such "ideal" housewives are uncommon even among neurotypicals. I still think that the attitude to women's quirks is more loyal in general than to men's quirks. In other words...
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    Aspies and Marriages

    Yes, I think such woman may be a good choice for an aspie man. On the other hand... I'm honestly, kind, quiet and family-oriented. I also accept only long-term relationships, hate lie and manipulation and never seek for other women while in relationships. Despite on the one neurotypical forum...
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    Aspies and Marriages

    Well, I think there are may be many obstacles both for aspie and his/her partner. Marriage between two aspies seems to me even more difficult then marriage between aspie and neurotypical. Because all aspies have distinct features: different obsessions, different sensory issues, different level...
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    Comment by 'Scaramouche' in 'Relationships with neurotypicals: an equation with all unknowns'

    No, I never tell. By default I think that recipient already knows what means each flower and its colour. The simpler code is scarlet roses - almost all neurotypicals associates it with love and passion. Actually I use two flower code systems: persian, named "Selam" and japanese, named...
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    Do you forget to do things?

    Sounds like me. I say myself that I must to do something but I completely forgot what after short walk through the hallway. Another thing. One time father asked me to buy him a chicken broth. I went to the shop and returned with the broth - but with the beef broth. Father got nervous and...
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    Personality Type (Myers-Briggs)

    ISTJ Introvert(78%) Sensing(25%) Thinking(38%) Judging(22%) You have strong preference of Introversion over Extraversion (78%) You have moderate preference of Sensing over Intuition (25%) You have moderate preference of Thinking over Feeling (38%) You have slight preference of Judging over...
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    Do You Feel Invisible?

    Yes - a lot of time in a quiet environment, one-by-one with my music:) I agree. Although I can't easily recognise the derisive pity. But I noticed that some physically disabled people takes not very good mention among many people (especially disabled women). Many people even don't make...
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    Do You Feel Invisible?

    Hi, Soup! It's all right, I had a wonderful week:) I think this happens because neurotypicals doesn't like attention to details and such format of the conversation considered boring and abstruse by them. I often see this when I try to explain something more accurately. This is not...
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