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Recent content by rabiit24

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    Dealing with Stress and Dark Times

    I would LOVE nothing more than to give him a massive hug right now. He was allegedly coming back at 6pm (its 7:50pm now) and still no word. Not even a "I'm not coming tonight". When he has said "Call it a day before" it has always related to us, I'm not cross I am hurt. I let myself look...
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    Dealing with Stress and Dark Times

    Hi All I need some advice, my partner is diagnosed autistic and if you have read any of my previous posts you know that we started off our relationship as an affair. We have been seeing each other for two years and needless to say it has been difficult (my other posts will show this) In...
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    Single fathers?

    So I think I have totally screwed everything up. I had a bit of a meltdown last night and got myself in a proper state crying etc. all I wanted to do was talk to him, he has such a way of calming me down and making me feel safe and secure and wanted. Any way long story short I sent a few too...
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    Single fathers?

    I can't get over him. He came to talk to me last night and said that we could be together if he could live without his son in his day to day life. For the last year he has been living just seeing him every other weekend. I have pointed out that it can only get better from here and especially...
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    Single fathers?

    Lol it wasn't harsh it's ok. I am not very good at looking after myself I am all about taking care of others (perhaps I need to work on that too). I have just never known heartbreak like it and I just want it to stop. We were so happy and we did get on well. Yes there were things that needed...
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    Single fathers?

    I have no idea what they are - it was always the discussion that we wanted to do this together and then build a relationship together which obviously includes his son and in a very weird way his wife. I accepted that when I came into this that it would more like a three way relationship. I just...
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    Single fathers?

    He doesn't hate her he still cares about her and in a fashion loves her. They didn't have a verbally or physically abusive relationship it was just that she made him feel isolated and unhappy. He tried to get her to go to marriage counselling and she wasn't interested, it has taken him leaving...
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    Help!

    I seem to be a glutton for punishment. My heart is broken and my head is screaming at me but I can't let go. This morning he's telling me that he can't decide between the two of us still and I think I believe him, if he was so sure he wanted her he would have gone back by now? I don't even...
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    Single fathers?

    I really like that. I am really struggling today, he is saying that he doesn't know which one of us he wants, he loves me but we stumble on the missing of the son. I totally understand that. Would you stay in a marriage you were unhappy in? The biggest problem I have is that he is in such a...
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    Divorced single fathers with ASD and ASD children

    Strange heading I know and I am not being weird. I am looking for some advice for the man I am seeing. Essentially we have been seeing each for 18months, started while he was married and has continued. He has spent 18months telling me he doesn't want to go back to his ex wife as that...
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    Single fathers?

    Strange heading I know and I am not being weird. I am looking for some advice for the man I am seeing. Essentially we have been seeing each for 18months, started while he was married and has continued. He has spent 18months telling me he doesn't want to go back to her but he misses his son...
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    Help!

    The thing that I just can't get past is that he keeps telling me he doesn't want her back. The sticking point we have is that he misses his son which I totally understand. But, maybe I am wrong, he needs to be totally honest with his ex about us and the emotional and physical relationship that...
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    Help!

    Equally the other issue I have is if I ask he tells me I'm forcing him into a corner and if I do that he'll be forced to make a decision and it won't end well for me... I'm not going to get the relationship we both keep saying we want am I?
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    Help!

    Maybe I'm wrong but surely by virtue of the fact he is still with me and (up until very recently) is happy to sleep with me etc. He's made a decision?
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    Help!

    Hi - thank for replying. Yes, legally he is still married. He started the divorce process at the beginning of the year but in June he stopped it, we have sort of spoken about it and he says he doesn't want to hurt her. I have tried to have the conversation further as I am of the opinion he is...
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