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Recent content by Peacelily76

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    Question About the Term Neurotypical

    Hmmmmm....what's neurotypical really? Someone who scores an average of 15 on the current ASQ test? Someone who follows a herd of other people and doesn't do or say anything that might be considered controversial? As a person who scores 6/7 on that test, I have my own personal doubts about it...
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    Emotions and Logic - is it me?

    I can't watch movies because I spot all the continuity errors. They drive me nuts and then I can't focus on the plot anymore. My favourite film is Contact. Best sci-fi movie ever in terms of ideas in my humble opinion.
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    Have you ever been told you cost to much?

    As an NT I just want to tell you that these people are not worth your time. How dare they make a judgement about you when they don't know what life is like for you. Please don't spend any time listening to these people. In the UK, we are working hard to understand and include people with autism...
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    Celebrate! We have a breakthrough!!

    Hi guys n gals! So...I have been working hard on making sure my workplace is thoroughly including the requirements of people with AS/ASC. I've worked with this brilliant colleague, Luke, who has AS and is a trainer/educator in Autism Spectrum conditions. He has been so much fun to work with and...
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    Small Talk (How much does it bother you?)

    Oh god! Let me tell you now that I score 6 on the ASQ and I find small talk difficult! I don't really watch TV and don't follow sport or any Netflix series so I can't really be bothered with having to engage in chat that doesn't serve any real purpose. I guess my issue is I like to get to the...
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    Being the lemon in the relationship

    Yes, yes, yes!! I totally agree with you! If I ask any Equality & Diversity lead to tell me how autism requirements are fully acknowledged and catered for in the workplace, leisure facilities, shopping malls, airports, they just look clueless! As if I've got an octopus suddenly attached to my...
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    An email every day

    Yeah we exchanged a lot of messages on Whatsapp last year but he overdid it, sending hundreds of messages. He ended up with overload. I've asked for us to email each other so it's more structured for him and he seems to be enjoying it more now. I don't want him to feel tired.
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    An email every day

    I have a fab Aspie friend who has inspired me to learn about Autism and Asperger's. I'm NT but I realised my dad has Asperger's through learning about my friend and overcoming some acute misunderstandings. I think he has alexithymia too so I accommodate his condition by being his emapthetic...
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    I'm going to the UK in May! Any suggestions on what to do?

    I'm from the UK and I am always excited to hear that people are coming over here! Yay!!! Ok. Here are my favourite things to do in London... Go for a walk along South Bank. From Waterloo station you pick up signs to do the walk along the riverside. You'll pass the National Theatre, Tate Modern...
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    Gift Giving/Receiving? [Help?!?]

    What a kind person you are. You've done everything right. You've maintained a good standard of generosity and kindness for people you have a high regard for. What a shame they couldn't be bothered to do the same for you. I would stop sending gifts to people who couldn't remember your birthday...
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    Rage & Breaking Points

    Your father is being violent towards you and you are living in a very unpredictable home environment. No wonder you are angry! I would be too! You say you cannot leave home. May I ask how old you are? I would advise that you ask for help; from your school or college, or from any local citizens...
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    Reactions from NT partners

    Hi, I'm NT and currently helping a friend through the diagnosis process. NTs like to be involved so you will benefit by asking him to join you for any professional advice/insight sessions. In this way, you are learning more about this together. Believe him when he says it doesn't change what you...
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    What motivates you at work?

    The BBC ran this article in February: Asperger's syndrome: Employers need awareness of challenges - BBC News
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    What motivates you at work?

    Thank you, Grenade, this is great feedback. Your workstyle sounds similar to mine. If I'm given the endgame or vision, I can figure out how to get there. If someone tries to micro-manage me, or if I feel I'm being watched, I go to pieces. So trust and respect are very important for me. Yes...
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    What motivates you at work?

    Rob, I love your post! It makes me want to work at your store!! You are perfect for your job, I can tell. A perfect sales person! I like how you can see the system is set up to promote interactions with customers in a structured way. This will then manage the flow of customers efficiently. It...
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