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Recent content by Jox

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    Repeating answer, what to do?

    Thank you for the offer, i do need help though, i just have to write the situation because it's too colorful. My first post made people think that he's psychopath, i knew he wasn't, and i see he's not a bad person, on the contrary. I also self diagnosed him, posted, but it created long thread...
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    Repeating answer, what to do?

    Actually i don't think it's only nagging, i think he's in shutdown... But there's nothing i can do, so I'm withdrawing...
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    Repeating answer, what to do?

    Thank you, makes sense...
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    Repeating answer, what to do?

    My boyfriend since last week has been repeating same answer to a question or statement and the answer is Yes Jox... Last week it started, we were cleaning the guest house, and the only verbal sound Was Yes Jox. I didn't pick up on it right away... But this yes didn't result in actions that...
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    How to tell SO that he is Aspie

    Significant other
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    How to tell SO that he is Aspie

    Hi all, I self diagnosed my SO that he's on spectrum. The steps I took afterwards: - watched YouTube videos. - did some reserch on Google - for the first time i asked him about most obvious traits he has and ones i could now identify that were strange for me before. He responded positive on...
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    What NT can learn from ND

    Well if you see him wanting to be emotional, if you say "dear I'm sorry you have a cold, it feels bad" might be enough... Some people get depressed with a cold...
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    What NT can learn from ND

    Hi all, One of the reason I got in a relationship with my ND in boyfriend in part is his behaviour with my chronic debilitating illnes. HOW NT REACT TO CHRONIC OR DIFFICULT ILNESSES NT's immediately have an emotional reaction, it's normal, seeing your friend, relative in a bad situation with no...
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    Now what to do?

    Hi Paul and all, I've not being active because on my phone the entire page is cover in ads, I'm on Android phone... I did some research on you tube and I'm convinced he is Aspie. For some reason everybody thinks he's a bad, sinister manipulative person. But in reality he is not. HOWEVER his...
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    Now what to do?

    I see that you doubt what he presents as reality, i do too but in this way: 1. When he described his job as a hotel manager very soon i realised that he was not managing but doing the work himself almost to the point of self distriction. 2. He was exposed to many people, traveled to foreign...
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    Now what to do?

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    Now what to do?

    I think that for me it's learning process. Just don't know exactly how to start. I'm not going to leave, not only because of the money, but we did have an important relationship, and now he is going through hard time. Don't think we are perfectly healthy, and i don't leave people easily. I don't...
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    Now what to do?

    First meeting: Raam contacted me through dating app. It was the time of the first lockdown. I didn't see clearly his face or anything. He came in unattractive clothes, with grown beard and strange long hair. He's 31 but growing bald. He looked like a bum. Raam told me that he is going through...
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    Now what to do?

    Reply to dark triad, I don't see any signs, not abusive in any way, quite opposite, trying to help/ please others. I'm people pleaser myself so up to now i thought we had similar traits. Body language I don't see anything at all. He told me that as growing up in sports he had so many injuries...
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    Now what to do?

    Why you think I didn't answer your questions. I'll read it again, but it doesn't seem to have relevance to him, I'll re-read it again.
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