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Recent content by Drakanav

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    Do They See Something?

    I’m 18, but others think I’m 12 or 13. It might be half of the problem why it’s hard for me to make friends. They probably just see a pre-teen girl. @Judge It may be a south-east thing. There’s a lot of nice people down here. Sometimes a little too nice, and too close. But makes you feel as if...
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    Do They See Something?

    When I go out, people will talk to me strangely by saying "sweetheart" or "darling". I once went out to Panera Bread with my mom, and a woman at the cashier said, "She's so precious", to my mom. I don't know if they notice anything, but it's getting a little creepy, as if they're talking to a...
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    Spacing Out When Overloaded.

    Does anyone else space out when overloaded? Like, you start staring at the ground/wall, your vision blurs and have to force yourself to regain awareness. Everything shuts off, and your not able to move. But, there's something calming about it. It happens at family gatherings or church, but...
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    The last thing that made you laugh

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    Topics that you bring up a lot

    Birds. A lot of my family members like birds too. They used to called a Cardinal "Red Bird", and before I knew what it was, I called it "Red Robin", like that restaurant.
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    Have you ever gotten the "Oh, everyone is somewhere on the spectrum?

    I went to the dentist last year in November, and he said that to me. It makes me feel like I should be ashamed for saying I'm autistic. I have no right to say that I am because "everyone" is somewhere on the spectrum.
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    They we're flying around and eating in the feeder. I think he a sibling of the 4 females...

    They we're flying around and eating in the feeder. I think he a sibling of the 4 females, because I always see him around them, along with the adults.
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    4 female juvenile cardinals, and only 1 male juvenile cardinal. I wonder, does he feel left out?

    4 female juvenile cardinals, and only 1 male juvenile cardinal. I wonder, does he feel left out?
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    Do you look your age?

    Some people have thought that I’m 13, when I’m actually going to be 18 next year.
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    What do you think impacts you the most?

    I would say, definitely sensory. I have meltdown almost every single day because everything around me is chaotic. The basics of things becomes harder, or even impossible. There are workarounds, like wearing gloves while washing the dishes, wearing a mask when doing laundry, sunglasses, earplugs etc.
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    Do you have an issue with being labeled?

    I don't mind - unless someone labels me in a certain way that hurts my feelings and causes conflict between me and them.
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    Poll: What is your diagnosis

    Diagnosed with ASD at age 3, and re-diagnosed at age 13. Severity and support varies by the minute/hour/day.
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    Women on the spectrum, masking

    My masking is seen as shyness. I stay quiet, hidden, so people can't see my social inabilities. When I'm at home with family, my mask is off and I become a blabber mouth - until one of my brothers friends come over and invades my safe place where I can be myself. I don't think I imitated other...
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