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Recent content by BlackCubeIsI

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    I need an advice...about living life

    I don't know what is the pattern...that's the problem Thank you... That's helpful - I'll try Maybe I really shouldn't think over and over The most difficult is to focus But maybe I should redirect all my efforts to it, not to figuring out how to fix everything)
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    I need an advice...about living life

    Personal Resilience I think. Mostly I want to know how other autistic people make their resilience. And mostly I'm interested in their actions. What do you all do to prevent bad conditions? What does your self-protecting behavior include? How do you resist things you don't like? What...
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    I need an advice...about living life

    Honestly I know it... But I don't know how not to hide my nature. I tried with him...and every time I felt it wasn't safe and he didn't really care. It was stupid to support this relationships so long. Yeah...the same... It's cool you did it) I'm sorry you had so many bad partners I had a dog...
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    Is Your Partner Autistic?

    My first (and only one) boyfriend was autistic. He was even diagnosed. Though it was awful. He wasn't a very good person. It ended when he shared his sex fear and I did the same. I was supportive, but he was nervous and angry because for me it was a fear I will always put first time off. It was...
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    I need an advice...about living life

    I start to feel it can't be solved Maybe I already don't know what particularly I want from you guys Maybe I want to know how normal autistic life looks like...and how people make it...
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    I need an advice...about living life

    Not 24/7 - no one struggle 24/7 I think... Yeah, sensory issues definitely a big part of that... Especially when I want to be with other people... People like what I don't like. And it seems as the choice between struggling-adjusting and friends/partner/social-time. And the second big problem...
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    I need an advice...about living life

    I don't want to escape struggling - I want escape most of struggling as I described
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    I need an advice...about living life

    Good try. But it doesn't help. I can share something and at the moment feel a little better. I can think whatever I want. But it's not in my head... I have life and if I struggle all the time, I can think and share whatever I want, but I still will struggle. I still will have meltdowns... I had...
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    I need an advice...about living life

    I really want to move on...I have to. I don't know how. Really don't know. I have just recently recognized my way of living life doesn't work, but I don't have another one. How can I live without...struggling like in that case? All things above about self-care are...pretty new... It seems...
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    I need an advice...about living life

    I don't know how to describe all this mess. Also English isn't my native language) Few days ago I ended my first friendship. It's a long unpleasant story therefore I'm not going to tell it. I think I have had it because I wanted to have a friend and he was available and we were interested in...
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