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Recent content by Atrapa Almas

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    Older Dad with High Functioning Young Son

    Hello Culchie, and wellcome. There is much difference from an autistic person to other autistic person. One common thing that all autists person share is that autism is a neurodevelopment issue, some "normal childs" features are not "yet" developed on autists childs. They may be partially...
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    How to get an “interest”

    What kind of stuff did you find interesting or fun when you was a kid?
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    Villain name

    Me too.
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    It is weird that I don't like it when people call me "young"?

    Young is perceived as positive by most people since almost all adults want to be or to look younger. There are all kind of cosmetics, makeups, suplements, surgeries, medicines... to look younger. So when people tell you younger they may be just trying to be nice to you since that strategy works...
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    Trying to be nice but not taken advantage of

    Yes, when I am nice and helpfull people may understand that I am being nice beyond normality and thus can be used. Like I have downgraded myself. So instead of using my own "limits" that are not "normal" I try to reflect other people limits that are normal.
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    I think my mother seriously may have always wanted to bury me.

    You probably has a very good reason to keep contact with her. Maybe you secretly hates yourself and allows her to hurt you because you think you deserve it. Maybe you secretly wants to be loved by her and are trying to "convince" her to love you. Whatever is the reason, your actions (not your...
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    Not being productive enough

    I feel the same way. I cope with it using strategy and organization. Planning what to do with my energy. What people and stuff drains me, so I try to avoid them. What people and stuff charges me so I try to bend my way towards them.
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    I Had a Job Interview and I Bombed It

    Something that may help as a practice is doing roleplay at home with family and friends. Some examples: + You Roleplay like you are the owner of a pizza restaurant and need to find workers. So design all kind of questions and/or tests for them to answer. Then your family/friends will roleplay...
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    Another night time drive.

    Gravity is an atraction field that exist in space, it propagates at light speed from any mass in every direction. Once it reaches any other mass, an atraction force between those masses appears and they start acceleraring towards each other. As there are so many objects with mass in the...
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    Do you feel envious and compare yourself to others?

    I dont experience non understand envy well. Lately I have been trying to understand if certain behavours of some people towards me can be due to envy. Its sad to see how well it explains many of my youth problems. Its like the better I am towards/in front of envy people the more they hate me...
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    Thanks! Happy new year for you too.

    Thanks! Happy new year for you too.
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    May you have fun and enjoy.

    May you have fun and enjoy.
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    Autistics not helping the cause challenging myths

    Im quite surprised. I get the feeling that any choice will be seen as bad by some person. Like some people need to read/listen exactly what they want or in the way they want so they dont ger hurt/upset. Maybe im wrong. If there is no info: Oh my god, I didnt know about that. If only I had...
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    Recently realized I’m likely autistic

    Welcome, I have been doing a lot of re-understanding of my past. Not that my life was fake, but It did not matched. So my friends friendship was not fake, but neither authentic. It did not match. After reading and reflecting about autism it match, but my memories do not. The stories I told...
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    My Wife wants me to prove I will defend her!

    What your wife expects you to do lives in her head. Society is changing many expectations about women, so they are more equal to men. On the other hand expectations about men are untouched. We are supossed to be protectors, but sensitive, providers of money and safety, and atentive listeners...
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