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Recent content by arcan

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    Small talk

    My trick is to try to make the other talk about themself or something they like, even if I'm absolutely not interested in the topic. They tend to talk much more freely and need that much less interaction or prompting from me.
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    Do Aspies Have A Sense of Humor?

    When in society, I often laugh when other people laugh, even if I don't see what's funny. It's become an automatic cloning reflex. In some situation, I don't laugh when they do and get strange reaction (people trying to explain me... and so on) or it takes me a couple of seconds to find what's...
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    Do Aspies Have A Sense of Humor?

    Does that mean if there's a stick coming back in the mouth of a dog it's called a boomerang? :D
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    Pokemon Go!

    got caught into that game last weekend. Ghaaa. Now the game is almost always running on my phone, depleting the battery. I'm just level 7.
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    HAPPY BIRTHDAY...EVERYBODY

    Thank you very much
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    New Job

    Congrats!
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    Truth of Love Meme Poll

    It is true, that with time, you get to know the "dark side" of the persone you're with. And it's also true that love is staying with them despite it. But it's definitely wrong to say that choosing love is choosing to serve, pain and sacrifice. Love is what makes it NOT a pain, NOT a sacrifice.
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    Five Love Languages Quiz

    I really can't take that quizz. The first 4 questions have no good answer for me. What's the result with only "C" answers ?
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    people who cancel last minute

    I hate this, and I find it very rude when someone does it.
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    Bedtime rituals

    I read a book, even if it's just a couple of lines.
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    Can you sing? Do you do Karaoke or anything?

    I can sing and I like karaoke. I go singing about twice a month. It took me over 2 years to be comfortable with it though (still not completely comfy), as I hadn't sung for many years.
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    Executive Functioning Issues

    I used to use Microsoft Money. I'd write all my expenses on it, and write the ones that come monthly, so they'll be written down automatically. It's easy to use and great to keep an eye on my account.
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    Book Collectors...

    I used to, but it takes too much space. Plus i never can order them the way I want (one is too big, or not the good color, and so on). I now have a kindle. Much easier to classify. I still have a few of my favorite books and a few very old ones too, though.
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    "True self" aspie style

    If I one day knew who I am, I forgot long ago. All I can say is that I'm not the one everyone sees. I'm not my mask.
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