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Recent content by Alis1998

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    Are my feelings fair in this situation?

    I got some back yesterday late, it was not close to the full payment but he told me to just buy myself something I need and not to count it in as payment for the debt he maked with me. (Which is hard for my brain to proces because I will count it natrually as payment, but I will stick to his...
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    Are my feelings fair in this situation?

    I have familly living in my house, however they doubted me before I could have explained (That is their normal behaviour). He is living here because he immigrated back to here but wasn't able to find a house yet. The money was spended on things like public transportation, his identity card and...
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    Are my feelings fair in this situation?

    Sometimes he has a more selfcentric mood but not like this. But remember, I am no angel either. I sometimes have it as well. Indeed he doesn't see her alot, but I couldn't/didn't felt like tellingn him that he and his sisters were being really "unnessarly pains in the ass".
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    Are my feelings fair in this situation?

    No don't be sorry, it actually maked me laugh a bit. Why I am questioning myself is because of a couple issues I have personally. Like, I can come off as quite harsh, blunt. I also have the issue of croping every problematic thing in my mind untill I explode. But mainly insecurities I think. I...
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    Are my feelings fair in this situation?

    We eventually talked after I was acting off towards him, I was really too pissed off to talk to him anymore with an understanding mindset. I guess I had to show him the hard way, he understands what I was feeling and he actually tried to make me feel more comfterable. I am giving him one...
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    Are my feelings fair in this situation?

    Hey guys. I was suposse to have a nice fun weekend with my boyfriend and his sister but it turned out not fun for me at all. Please read the details in the spoiler. (I am putting things that are background information in spoilers so it is easier to read). So she went to stay the night in my...
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    I wouldn't want to care for someone severely autistic

    I don't think you are a hypocrite at all! If you can't handle someone who is serverly autistic, then why should you? There is only so much that a person can handle. It is up to you if you can handle it, and it is up to you if you want children. We all know that the spectrum brings alot of...
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    What is your Medication

    At the moment I take vitamine D shots and I am going to get tested at B12 just in case. My brother has it (also autistic) and my mom but diffrent case. Happends to be quite commen that people with autism have B12 shortage. I used to take risperidone. It really helped filtering information and...
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    The term "Aspie" --is it offensive? What do you call yourself?

    The word Aspie on it's own, without much detail giving, I find it not such a nice word on it own. However that perhaps comes to how "ie" on the end of the word in the dutch langauge is used. Like "je" is "ie" a way of making things sound smaller/cute, which I personally dislike. But offensive...
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    OCD..how common is this with autism?

    I don't have ocd, at least not that iknow of. I have never been tested. However... I do have some things that could be described as "ocd" but I don't think it is that, in fact I don't know alot about ocd. But I do experience a sort chaos/stress inside my head if I don't do certain things. But to...
  11. Alis1998

    What is it like to be in love?

    It is feeling like you should touch something, a sort urge. A chemistry, strongly. It is the enjoyment, of your favorite food/hobby/movie/music intensified if you can touch this person. It is feeling safe, comfterable, feeling liked if the person likes you back. It is that warm, a bit nervouze...
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    Can y’all see the old woman?

    I can see opticial illusions well, not nessarly an autistic thing. Actually went recently to the Escher museum in the hague (the netherlands) and enjoyed it alot. Sadly there were more view-pantings in the galery last year (2018) with crayon and cohl of places in italy. Wasn't my thing. I think...
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    High functioning

    High functioning and low functioning doesn't mean that somebody is more or less autistic. It just means that sometimes a person with high functioning is more capable of making social interaction for example. In general it just means that people with HF autism can deal society a bit better. But...
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    The Sleep Thread. What Are Your Sleep Habits?

    I sleep now between 10/11:30 pm till 6/8:30 Am. On workdays I always have to get up around 6 am. And to be honest, sometimes that make me extremly sleepy untill the point of collapsing. So for me, 8 hourse is not enough sometimes. I have experienced sleep paralysis and sleeping extremly...
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    The Christmas Thread

    I actually do like xmass. Just not in the same way before. Just seeing the sparkeling christmass lights makes me feel a bit calm. The smells, food and scents makes me feel excited. We never really did presents, but this year we will and to be honest: I like making people feel nice. But this...
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