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Tony Ramirez

Tony Ramirez

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Single Aspie with perceived rejection 47 From Brooklyn, NY
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  • Tony Ramirez
    I'm jaywalking again
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    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    I actually got a Jay walking ticket in LA, it was 150 dollars at that time.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    No wonder, tourists visit New York actually wait for the light even when there are no cars coming.
    T
    thejuice
    Yeah there are some very obedient, model citizens like that 😁 I'm glad you got a call,that's nice of her, play it as cool as you can, 😎I know things are bad, emotions are temporary, even though you feel them very much
    Tony Ramirez
    My RSD is back and it's not my imagination people especially women really don't like me or want to be with me ignore me on purpose.
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    thejuice
    You got bad advice but hey It happens. Yes she was ignoring you, try not to chase someone who isn't interested. It doesn't mean all women hate you. Try to focus on those that show indicators of interest.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Sorry Tony. Try to talk thru your feelings to yourself and not fixate on bad thoughts.
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    Steelbookcollector217
    are you having problems with that new woman you recently befriended? is she no longer speaking to you?
    Tony Ramirez
    It's hard to meetup together with a girl in NYC that lives in a certain borough. There are reasons.
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    FayetheAspie
    FayetheAspie
    Is it a dangerous area or something?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    My friend says at night it is. It's hard for her to go home. Bronx BTW.
    Cutesie
    Cutesie
    Reckless me has walked for thousands of hours throughout NYC - in any neighborhood, at any time of day. I was attacked twice, neither severely. Both were by people who were clearly "not well".
    Tony Ramirez
    My increase meds are working good. Don't worry they are the weight loss one.
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    tree
    tree
    Topamax (topiramate) is a medication that treats seizures and prevents migraines. It's also sometimes taken off-label for depression, weight loss, nerve pain, and more. Topamax comes in a variety of formulations, including a generic form called topiramate. Topiramate: MedlinePlus Drug Information
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    Steelbookcollector217
    are you still exercising?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    You mean walking, then yes, and also meeting people more like me along the way by leaving the useless places that did nothing.
    Tony Ramirez
    Everyone hates me.
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    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    I don't hate you. It's not nice to say this to those who support you here. We all hit rough spots. I would hang out with you. I am pretty sure l could make you laugh about something totally stupid. :)
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    The new female friend wants to spend time with me. Unlike this other one glued to her phone popping gum at her damn apartment, yesterday, then she had the nerve to text today before I went out to ask why I left. I ghosted her ass.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    While her guy friends played COD 6.
    Tony Ramirez
    I proved my former last year therapist who nearly ruined me last year.
    PEOPLE LIKE ME, CAN HAVE FEMALE FRIENDS.
    Tony Ramirez
    I am put on this earth to suffer, be ignored and hated by everyone.
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    FayetheAspie
    FayetheAspie
    He didn't have to experience any of that or the agony of crucifixion either but He came to earth for us. He came for you.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I was a Christian, but I hate God for cursing me with autism.
    Zain
    Zain
    Who said he gave you autism? Humans biologically have become vulnerable since being thrown out of Eden. Genetic defects (those that can't reproduce) wouldn't exist in a perfect world. Poor diets leading to weak genetics wouldn't be possible. Just like sin, we physically inherit the bad/negative decisions of our ancestors. This is dependent on how you view autism as well. Just my thoughts on it.
    Tony Ramirez
    None of the women that know me have animosity against me. It was proving today when one said hi and talked to. It's all in my head. It's my RSD.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Sometimes l come across sharp, not nice because l am dealing with some major issues. l don't dislike the person l am talking to, l just have very little energy, and can't be cute- nice.
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    @Tony Ramirez
    Maybe you can save this comment somewhere or write it down so that you can remember it when your mind is hyper focused on rejection.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Great idea @Rodafina , sometimes we forget how far we have come.
    Tony Ramirez
    Dispute my earlier meltdown due to my mother insulting me in the phone when I called her earlier, my friends from church still treated me for lunch out to eat. I take them for granted, what my narcissistic parents put me through.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    I am so glad that you realize you may be normal, it's just your parents derailed your perception of yourself. Like you should be chastised or belittled for just existing. My parents were excellent at this. But l try my best to be respectful to others unless they loose that privilege.
    oregano
    oregano
    I try to treat others with respect, especially if they are in jobs that require a lot of negotiations with people who are angry and/or traumatized. I once had a pharmacist who said she liked dealing with me because I was always calm and levelheaded. She tended to get screamed at by customers all day.
    Tony Ramirez
    Therapy or faith doesn't really help. I'm living proof of it.
    Misty Avich
    Misty Avich
    It's best to just do therapy anyway because whenever we vent on here at least we can say we done therapy whenever we're asked the inevitable "have you tried therapy?"
    Tony Ramirez
    Thursday night meetup tried actually went great. It was faith based, where I basically have the most comfortable connections.
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