Dryope
Active Member
I called a specialty fountain pen company about a vintage Waterman I wanted to buy that required customization to give it more flex. I also wanted advice on making a determination on buying a Nakaya pen with an elastic nib, since I can't go a pen show just now and don't know enough to make a reasoned purchase, and I've never seen one in person.
The nib expert at the company took my call, listened to my questions and said, "Well, I don't know what to tell you."
My god, how more simple it would have been to just be able to say: "Oh, well, I'm autistic, and I have lots of little questions about the details. I've read everything I can online, watched videos of the pens on YouTube, and looked into the mechanics of how they work and considered how that relates to my writing style. But I still don't have enough information."
But of course I can't say that. Tony Atwood says I can't say that. "I'm the kind of person who..." what? It's easy to come up with something now, but in the middle of a conversation on nib grinds? My mind just comes up with "I'm the kind of person who can't go to a pen show just now and who wants to know more about flex and customizations."
Uh, no. Lucky for me, there are a lot of pen nerds out there and this guy has learned to just close his eyes and answer lots of fiddly little questions.
Still, I have to keep biting my tongue not to say -- "I want to know because I'm autistic, OK? Now just tell me what I want to know."
The nib expert at the company took my call, listened to my questions and said, "Well, I don't know what to tell you."
My god, how more simple it would have been to just be able to say: "Oh, well, I'm autistic, and I have lots of little questions about the details. I've read everything I can online, watched videos of the pens on YouTube, and looked into the mechanics of how they work and considered how that relates to my writing style. But I still don't have enough information."
But of course I can't say that. Tony Atwood says I can't say that. "I'm the kind of person who..." what? It's easy to come up with something now, but in the middle of a conversation on nib grinds? My mind just comes up with "I'm the kind of person who can't go to a pen show just now and who wants to know more about flex and customizations."
Uh, no. Lucky for me, there are a lot of pen nerds out there and this guy has learned to just close his eyes and answer lots of fiddly little questions.
Still, I have to keep biting my tongue not to say -- "I want to know because I'm autistic, OK? Now just tell me what I want to know."