Asperger's was the fourth category. Let's meet in the middle on this. Give it a new name that doesn't have any Nazi issues and let those of us who were Aspies be Somethingelseies and we're Even Steven.there should be 4 categories
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Asperger's was the fourth category. Let's meet in the middle on this. Give it a new name that doesn't have any Nazi issues and let those of us who were Aspies be Somethingelseies and we're Even Steven.there should be 4 categories
Asperger has no Nazi issues.Asperger's was the fourth category. Let's meet in the middle on this. Give it a new name that doesn't have any Nazi issues and let those of us who were Aspies be Somethingelseies and we're Even Steven.
Aspies are basically Level 1 - require some level of accommodation and/or support > normies. But < category 2 & 3. Support for level 1's doesn't have to be financial, could be in terms of divulging diagnosis to normies in order they be inclusive or getting extra support from parents or guardians.
Category 4 are invisible Autists...travelling through life passing as normies, perhaps hiding little quirks (and hiding them well enough)
Diagnosis does help a lot of ppl.I was never diagnosed have no interest in ever being diagnosed, explained who I am all I need.
I was one of those people. Personally, hindsight being 20/20, I didn't "know" I was different in the sense that my masking was unconscious, my intelligence allowed me to adapt and function well... on the other hand... likely because of the autism component, I didn't know that my "sensory issues", persistent tinnitis, visual snow syndrome, etc. was anything out of the ordinary. My cognitive empathy issues never triggered me to question whether other people were experiencing their world like I did... I just assumed I was the same as everyone else. I never spoke to people about myself, so these questions never came up... ever. Testing revealed something quite different... a real eye opener.I personally think there should be 4 categories. Research suggests most women and some men with ASD are able to successfully mask to the point they go through life thinking they are normies.
My experience was similar to yours in that I didn't realize my masking was unconscious. I always had a hard time fitting in but I always thought that i was just a very smart neurotypical and that my problems were mostly to do with dealing with too many dumb folks. All the sensory issues I had I didn't realize, I just knew certain environments I inherently didn't like, like busy shopping malls, but couldn't figure out the real why, again I just attributed it to, too many dumb people. For me it wasn't until my 40's that I learned I was autistic, and then looking back on everything through that lens, everything made sense, and people weren't dumb after all. Well not all of them anyways.I was one of those people. Personally, hindsight being 20/20, I didn't "know" I was different in the sense that my masking was unconscious, my intelligence allowed me to adapt and function well... on the other hand... likely because of the autism component, I didn't know that my "sensory issues", persistent tinnitis, visual snow syndrome, etc. was anything out of the ordinary. My cognitive empathy issues never triggered me to question whether other people were experiencing their world like I did... I just assumed I was the same as everyone else. I never spoke to people about myself, so these questions never came up... ever. Testing revealed something quite different... a real eye opener.
Yeah sometimes a diagnosis has the opposite effect due to stigma around labels.I think diagnosing may help if there is support,
if there isn't i think a person can learn for themselves if they are autistic,
because after reading experiences of others and about autism, it just falls naturally i think
when you realize 'Yes that is me'
except in schools and employment. But otherwise why fix something that isn't broken.In my country pshychiatrists don't even diagnose adults,
They know about autism, but they don't bother,
unless you are with really difficult things about autism,
but if you can walk and talk and keep calm etc, forget about about diagnoses and support.
Most groups are still in the 'parents with children with autism' they don't consider adults.
If possible, keep it to yourself initially, I guess.Yeah sometimes a diagnosis has the opposite effect due to stigma around labels.
I was one of those people. Personally, hindsight being 20/20, I didn't "know" I was different in the sense that my masking was unconscious, my intelligence allowed me to adapt and function well...
You need to find a category 4 website.I was one of those people. Personally, hindsight being 20/20, I didn't "know" I was different in the sense that my masking was unconscious, my intelligence allowed me to adapt and function well...
It can be very situational. I mentioned employers, psychosocial safety in workplaces is now mandated under Victorian law. I had some difficult interactions with co-workers so had to play the neurodiverse card for damage control. I am seen as an easy target.If possible, keep it to yourself initially, I guess.
I was always open to informing ppl of my ND.
I still don't have a problem.
I guess it depends on the timeline, the specific situation, and the individual's personality. <shrug>
My part pokes into the Mirror Universe. I hang with Evil Kirk.Is “autism” just a spectrum along one axis?