Libecht
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I grew up in a family where relaxing is considered a luxury or waste of time and now this way of thinking has rooted firmly in me. Currently I'm out of school and applying for grad school, which should be a good time to enjoy life, but I'm constantly worried or preparing myself for the future. The worriment is not so bad that it becomes anxiety. I fill my every day with learning languages, reviewing college materials, keeping a diary, reading (useful) books, exercising, learning new softwares and a dozen other skills that might be useful in the future. Sure, I still watch funny videos and play games, but every second of it, I feel very guilty, like I'm wasting precious time.
People compliment me often, that I manage my time well and have great self-restraint. But the truth is I'm exhausted and guilty all the time. Guilty because I wasted time on amusement or leisure, exhausted because I didn't really relax while doing that. Rationally I know I can, deserve to, and should do what I really enjoy, but my subconsciousness simply cannot allow myself to relax, to do just what I want.
Please help.
*Off-topic: Please let me know if I used "productive" and "college materials" incorrectly. By the former I meant "not wasting time; doing something to improve oneself; prepare for the future" and by the latter I meant "the things you study in college like thermodynamics, mathematics, etc".
People compliment me often, that I manage my time well and have great self-restraint. But the truth is I'm exhausted and guilty all the time. Guilty because I wasted time on amusement or leisure, exhausted because I didn't really relax while doing that. Rationally I know I can, deserve to, and should do what I really enjoy, but my subconsciousness simply cannot allow myself to relax, to do just what I want.
Please help.
*Off-topic: Please let me know if I used "productive" and "college materials" incorrectly. By the former I meant "not wasting time; doing something to improve oneself; prepare for the future" and by the latter I meant "the things you study in college like thermodynamics, mathematics, etc".
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