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The Dynamic Trio

lunarious

Shi'a Muslim
V.I.P Member
I apologize, i think my post here suits nowhere. Best here.

But. I called this post The Dynamic Trio (i found the science of dynamics) to signify motion between three points.

Our 3 points in our process are:
- Our God everywhere including AF
- The Dominant Group
- The Sub-Dominant Outcast group

There 3 colors are also RGB in Information Technology.

But the community is at least two communities (regarding Salãt). The Dominant and Sub-Dominant cooexist well in a well functioning community, we're not supposed to (edit) integrate into eachother. but I don't fit in well because i'm Muslim in Norway. Norway was Christian.

So i don't cooexist with Norway well, and it hurts for me that i'm alone. .. Is it an option to embrace "the love" when I know that will strategically hurt me? Making me crazy. So i must choose between two pains. 1) Pain of loneliness 2) Pain of asking sheep to help someone like me .. It's not my time to wake up. I must sleep. ... But I don't hear the lullaby. The God is Generous, something people I observe are not.

And that reminds me of Imam Ali (as) Quote: "Do not demonize the path of Truth for its few pedestrians".
 
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I apologize, i think my post here suits nowhere. Best here.

But. I called this post The Dynamic Trio (i found the science of dynamics) to signify motion between three points.

Our 3 points in our process are:
- Our God everywhere including AF
- The Dominant Group
- The Sub-Dominant Outcast group

There 3 colors are also RGB in Information Technology.

But the community is at least two communities (regarding Salãt). The Dominant and Sub-Dominant cooexist well in a well functioning community, we're not supposed to (edit) integrate into eachother. but I don't fit in well because i'm Muslim in Norway. Norway was Christian.

So i don't cooexist with Norway well, and it hurts for me that i'm alone. .. Is it an option to embrace "the love" when I know that will strategically hurt me? Making me crazy. So i must choose between two pains. 1) Pain of loneliness 2) Pain of asking sheep to help someone like me .. It's not my time to wake up. I must sleep. ... But I don't hear the lullaby. The God is Generous, something people I observe are not.

And that reminds me of Imam Ali (as) Quote: "Do not demonize the path of Truth for its few pedestrians".
That's a strong flavour of isolation, but there are thousands of other ways that one person's values can clash with their neighbours' I live among cowboys and indians with the cowboys winning as they poison the land, but I'm actually far too liberal even for the tiny radical left party, the way I see it. Unable to understand me, they assume I'm a brand of the familiar rednecks.
 
That's good. When they show bad Judgment, that's not your fault.

My mom said to me, we be patient on sinful things. And we can be patient of obligatory things.

PS: I forgot you made a post here. I saw it now.
 

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