This is not that abnormal, did not eat at work or even while in college, ate when I got home Even now only eat one meal a day.
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Yes, I did read your suggestions, but they were too vague and general to be helpful to my situation. I opened this thread in the hopes of people with similar struggles (not noticing that they're hungry while very focused on something, being very drained after work, struggling with forgetfulness, disorganization and being chaotic) to share their hacks and strategies to deal with this and still eat enough and healthily. Which I feel like I received - many people shared their experience and gave advice, which did help me.It is easy to solve, though… Did you read my suggestions? I wasn’t trying to be a smartass. If not eating breakfast doesn’t work for you, eat breakfast. If you get hungry before noon, eat before noon. If you forget to eat, create a reminder on your phone. If you’re “too tired” or “unmotivated” to do whatever, nothing anyone can say is going to make you not-tired or not-motivated. What exactly do you expect anyone to say here that’s going to spur you into action? It’s up to you.
How is it vague and general to suggest that you eat breakfast, eat before noon, and create reminders on your phone, though? These aren’t vague or general suggestions at all. They’re very specific and direct answers to the issues you raised. They’re simple, logical solutions.Yes, I did read your suggestions, but they were too vague and general to be helpful to my situation. I opened this thread in the hopes of people with similar struggles (not noticing that they're hungry while very focused on something, being very drained after work, struggling with forgetfulness, disorganization and being chaotic) to share their hacks and strategies to deal with this and still eat enough and healthily. Which I feel like I received - many people shared their experience and gave advice, which did help me.
Maybe my post seemed a bit whiny, but it wasn't meant that way.
Admittedly, I also wanted to complain a bit about the stress of everyday life and hoped to read from people with similar issues to feel less alone, which also worked. I realize that that's not something everyone does or likes.
How is it vague and general to suggest that you eat breakfast, eat before noon, and create reminders on your phone, though? These aren’t vague or general suggestions at all. They’re very specific and direct answers to the issues you raised. They’re simple, logical solutions.
If you just wanted to whine and complain about how difficult it all is, though, I totally get that. I do this all the time, too.
I understand how it might seem illogical. I struggle a lot with executive dysfunction, which in my case can mean that I know how things work and I still don't manage to do it, without it being because of a lack of trying. It then can help me to read other people's concrete hacks and strategies, because they give me something small and concrete to do and try.How is it vague and general to suggest that you eat breakfast, eat before noon, and create reminders on your phone, though? These aren’t vague or general suggestions at all. They’re very specific and direct answers to the issues you raised. They’re simple, logical solutions.
If you just wanted to whine and complain about how difficult it all is, though, I totally get that. I do this all the time, too.
That’s true. I actually never said she was whining, though. She did (she said her post may have seemed a bit whiny). Everyone whines sometimes. It doesn’t change the fact that the only remedy to not doing a thing is doing it. There’s nothing anyone can say that’s going to make it easier. You either change or you don’t.Executive function issues can mean that a person can have difficulty executing tasks that they know how to do, logically. It isn't whining to complain about something that can be quite disabling for some people.
Your posts did actually help me too. I managed to make a schedule for this past week, set reminders, cooked a huge amount of one dish on Sunday, and ate that on 3 weekdays for lunch. I guess one of the hacks for me might be to cook a large amount of something and pre-pack it into boxes on Sunday, so I don't have to think about it again for several days. I noticed that because on the remaining 2 days, without anything planned I fell back into my old ways. Also, when I have something that needs heating up, I seem to be more motivated to eat it during a set lunch break than if I take a sandwich I could eat at any given moment (and end up not eating at all).That’s true. I actually never said she was whining, though. She did (she said her post may have seemed a bit whiny). Everyone whines sometimes. It doesn’t change the fact that the only remedy to not doing a thing is doing it. There’s nothing anyone can say that’s going to make it easier. You either change or you don’t.
Oh good, okay. I actually started to feel a bit bad about my post. I just know that, for me, the difficult thing, whatever the thing is that I’m putting off, I know I’m never going to want to do it. It’s never going to be easy. I’m never going to suddenly feel inspired and ready;—I have to force myself to do it, and that initial moment of action is so difficult and feels weird, but once I’ve done the thing a few times, soon afterwards I can’t even remember why it was so difficult to begin with. But Tiffany’s post was much more helpful than mine, so I hope you got a lot out of it, too.Your posts did actually help me too. I managed to make a schedule for this past week, set reminders, cooked a huge amount of one dish on Sunday, and ate that on 3 weekdays for lunch. I guess one of the hacks for me might be to cook a large amount of something and pre-pack it into boxes on Sunday, so I don't have to think about it again for several days. I noticed that because on the remaining 2 days, without anything planned I fell back into my old ways. Also, when I have something that needs heating up, I seem to be more motivated to eat it during a set lunch break than if I take a sandwich I could eat at any given moment (and end up not eating at all).
So thanks for pushing me a bit out of my mind spiral!
Don't worry about it, it's all good. I know what you mean - sometimes, that's the same for me too, just needing to give myself a push and just DO the thing I'm putting off.Oh good, okay. I actually started to feel a bit bad about my post. I just know that, for me, the difficult thing, whatever the thing is that I’m putting off, I know I’m never going to want to do it. It’s never going to be easy. I’m never going to suddenly feel inspired and ready;—I have to force myself to do it, and that initial moment of action is so difficult and feels weird, but once I’ve done the thing a few times, soon afterwards I can’t even remember why it was so difficult to begin with. But Tiffany’s post was much more helpful than mine, so I hope you got a lot out of it, too.