Ah, to be young again! Seriously, where did the time go? To be honest, most of the time I had spent was spent on video games and that did not get me anywhere. But I digress, I am writing this now to explain, to the best of my abilities, how the time you spend with someone and your experiences with said person affects how love works.
Rule No. 1: Take your time.
What is a couple? In my opinion, a couple is a pair of people in a relationship. Relationship being the key word. And of course, a lasting relationship takes time to build. If they are interested or not, just build a friendship first. Once they get to know you, you can focus on spending more time together, platonically or otherwise. The more time spent with someone the more they get to know you. The more they get to know you, the more they can consider whether or not to become more than just friends.
Rule No. 2: Be yourself.
If someone isn't interested in who you truly are, they're more than likely not going to be interested in who you pretend to be. Enough said.
Rule No. 3: Be honest.
Be honest with them, and yourself. If not, you could end up finding out the difficult truth that they are not the one for you or vice versa. That is all.
Hope it helps.
Rule No. 1: Take your time.
What is a couple? In my opinion, a couple is a pair of people in a relationship. Relationship being the key word. And of course, a lasting relationship takes time to build. If they are interested or not, just build a friendship first. Once they get to know you, you can focus on spending more time together, platonically or otherwise. The more time spent with someone the more they get to know you. The more they get to know you, the more they can consider whether or not to become more than just friends.
Rule No. 2: Be yourself.
If someone isn't interested in who you truly are, they're more than likely not going to be interested in who you pretend to be. Enough said.
Rule No. 3: Be honest.
Be honest with them, and yourself. If not, you could end up finding out the difficult truth that they are not the one for you or vice versa. That is all.
Hope it helps.