Should I Give Up?

[Andrew Campbell]

So, I've got this girl I'm in love with. Like deep, honest love. Unfortunately, two problems:

1. I don't know if she feels the same
2. Her parents don't particularly like me

I don't want to give her up, but should I?

 

[Grumpy Cat]

And why do they not like you?

 

[Judge]

So, I've got this girl I'm in love with. Like deep, honest love. Unfortunately, two problems:

1. I don't know if she feels the same

Not two problems. One problem. After all, if she doesn't feel the same, the second problem is a moot point.

Find out how she feels.

 

[Andrew Campbell]

Well true. Yeah. We used to be in love, but I don't know any more.

 

[Judge]

Well true. Yeah. We used to be in love, but I don't know any more.

Hmmm....that puts a real spin on it all. I've been there too. Admittedly that's more complicated. People do fall out of love, just as they can fall into it.

 

[Andrew Campbell]

Yeah, that's what I'm worried about

 

[Judge]

Yeah, that's what I'm worried about

That was one of the worst experiences I had...being in love with a Neurotypical who did fall out of love with me. I never saw it coming. She eventually sent me a "dear john" type letter..which left me in shock. Worst of all we worked in the same office...near each other's work stations. Short of being blunt and asking I'm not sure about the queues that might explain how they truly feel under such circumstances.

In my case my gut feelings just completely let me down...

 

[Andrew Campbell]

Yeah. I was gonna write her a letter. Her parents won't let us see each other.

 

[Judge]

Yeah. I was gonna write her a letter. Her parents won't let us see each other.

I'd just make sure there's a way for her to receive it without the parents intercepting it. Even if or when both of you are legally adults, parents can be incredibly invasive...

 

[Andrew Campbell]

Yeah. I was gonna see if the library she goes to could hold it for her. She goes there herself, but I'm not exactly sure when ,or I'd meet her myself.

 

[GoofKing]

If it doesn't all work out, I wish you luck in finding love again and hope that she is the one for you ... Good luck on your current crush ...