umbrellabeach
Well-Known Member
Is it common for Aspies to have an extreme want/need for privacy?
Me, I feel like I'm always surrounded by people who try to poke their nose into my private business and can't leave me alone. I feel like they're always watching me and always demand to know where I am and what I'm doing. I love being alone because I feel too awkward around other people, but I can never be alone for very long, sometimes not at all. Because of all the people everywhere I don't even want to go outside and play, although I always feel so much better outside than when I'm inside. I don't mean to hide anything, but I really want privacy. People who don't leave me alone just irk me to death.
And you know what's really weird about this? I'm more at ease around strangers, people at stores and parks and things, than I am around my own family and some of my friends. I'd rather tell my business to them than to people who actually know me.
Is this an Aspie thing, or am I just a really private person?
Me, I feel like I'm always surrounded by people who try to poke their nose into my private business and can't leave me alone. I feel like they're always watching me and always demand to know where I am and what I'm doing. I love being alone because I feel too awkward around other people, but I can never be alone for very long, sometimes not at all. Because of all the people everywhere I don't even want to go outside and play, although I always feel so much better outside than when I'm inside. I don't mean to hide anything, but I really want privacy. People who don't leave me alone just irk me to death.
And you know what's really weird about this? I'm more at ease around strangers, people at stores and parks and things, than I am around my own family and some of my friends. I'd rather tell my business to them than to people who actually know me.
Is this an Aspie thing, or am I just a really private person?