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Neglect

Kayla55

Kayla55

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My family wasn't perfect, and legal to hit children then, even teachers hit girls over knuckles with ruler. So over years it was mostly autism that seperated me, made me feel as if I didn't fit in. Watching this new story with empathy through eyes with ASD....
One turn of events can alter ones whole life, a bad thing can happen to anyone that destroys you, leaves you lonely.
Hope they charge step moment and family who knew, this is so sad.

 
Unfortunately.

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I heard certain people was kept in dungeouns, physically didn't see sun until they got older. However i can explain that metaphorically, because how can people be so evil?

Strict upbringing.
 
Sad to think how we as children are so misunderstood. To me, my daughter was perfect. I loved her special interest side, she was quite talented in many ways. She grew older, and loved video games, l had no problems with that. Never put restrictions on her. Didn't tell her when to get up, or when to go to bed. She always had her own computer, changed her hair color, wore what she wanted, ate what she wanted, and now she is a pretty healthy adult in a seven year relationship. But if l tried to mold her, place restrictions on her, criticize her looks, weight, interests, that would have been disastrous. Also, l made a point to include her in choices affecting her, that's very important to help with a sense of identity and confidence.
 
Aspychata said:
Sad to think how we has children are so misunderstood. To me, my daughter was perfect. I loved her special interest side, she was quite talented in many ways. She grew older, and loved video games, l had no problems with that. Never put restrictions on her. Didn't tell her when to get up, or when to go to bed. She always had her own computer, changed her hair color, wore what she wanted, ate what she wanted, and now she is a pretty healthy adult in a seven year relationship. But if l tried to mold her, place restrictions on her, criticize her looks, weight, interests, that would have been disastrous. Also, l made a point to include her in choices affecting her, that's very important to help with a sense of identity and confidence.
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My brother and I are kindof opposits, he doesn't like to hear that but he was a theif said my dad. Now he is a handsome grownup adult.

Me on the other hand am experiencing i'm "socially hacking" USA like a theif would. I was a handsome young man.
 
Huge distinction is ability to be normal in your tribe, whether you blend in. When you don't it's tricky.
It's crazy that this boy was overlooked by social services meanwhile I with my ADHD son was harassed beyond collecting the diagnosis papers, and then questioned as to whether I could cope, so the social worker had left and I had to reinstate my rights to new lady, that no one copes with ADHD and to in friendly way bugger off.
I think faced poverty a child may take something out of interest, and not so serious as long as learn not do do it, again.
Do you afford always delicious snacks? Expensive, and spectrum kids fussy, I can't understand people who place locks on food cupboards, dealt with those types and then faced financial issues to battle to afford food, so it's tricky.
My faith being bit tested, lately. I've decided worrying about he'll isn't issue when trying to survive a life of living hell, who's worried about dying in this world.
But I believe special punishment is reserved for those who take it out on children, no excesses.
 
Another case of rich man who refused a woman maintenance due to conflict interests due to coming from different countries. So woman left boy with nothing unless he provided, of which she wasn't really independent.

The children of such unions are left in battleground between parents and the law needs to recognise these types of cases to defend children. Perhaps best to stay in own class, religion and culture if it goes as far as child neglect.
 
Just a hypothesis @Kayla55

If one has Faith in ones self. Everything will turn out well. Faithlessness doesn't help a friend nor an enemy. It a tough one, here, we say that we practise demise on our enemies.

This is what Allah the only God we have teaches. This will appearently empower you and dispower those whom hurt you. ... Allah loves/likes that you forgive. You are in a position where you have experienced hurt, and Patience is welcomed from you by Him, so you have the ability to punish or not.

Your generosity is wanted. You may want to talk about such things in Religious Forum.
 
lunarious said:
Just a hypothesis @Kayla55

If one has Faith in ones self. Everything will turn out well. Faithlessness doesn't help a friend nor an enemy. It a tough one, here, we say that we practise demise on our enemies.

This is what Allah the only God we have teaches. This will appearently empower you and dispower those whom hurt you. ... Allah loves/likes that you forgive. You are in a position where you have experienced hurt, and Patience is welcomed from you by Him, so you have the ability to punish or not.

Your generosity is wanted. You may want to talk about such things in Religious Forum.
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If mention unmentionable details of case, then clarify this matter. But it's horrific and involves Slovak woman and a rich Mediterranean man, who could not just give the money (which had more than enough) give money cause it's his own child that needed it.
She ended up working in Vegas somewhere.
He did it deliberately to hurt her, but it hurt the child.
 
I met such a lady, her husband of a certain country, very wealthy, denied her child support. His daughters don't talk to him, don't want to see him. It's a story l see over and over in FL. I also have seen plenty of senior citizens suddenly get dumped and divorced by their husband who takes everything from them except their clothes, that's a repeating theme in this state, too many women tell me this.
 
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Aspychata said:
I met such a lady, her husband of a certain country, very wealthy, denied her child support. His daughters don't talk to him, don't want to see him. It's a story l see over and over in FL. I also have seen plenty of senior citizens suddenly get dumped and divorced by their husband who takes everything from them except their clothes, that's a repeating theme in this state, too many women tell me this.
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I noted despite all women's rights that most women earn less and have lesser job descriptions. Heard from many women in abusive relations who couldn't leave due to finances. The sad part is most women are not going to leave to become the bread winner, if can reside with family until meet another man who's prepared to support you with children, then this means don't have to stay, better for child that you don't. I think many women struggle knowing how to get that level of commitment from a man, but there are good men, obviously not first guy you meet.
 
I Got strapped a couple of times in grade school, under stand now they did not understand who I was. Either way they strapped my older brother he grabbed strap and strapped teacher,
 
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