Mummyoftwo20062012
New Member
Good evening,
So I'm brand new on here and dont know where to start really.
Me and my husband have had a long and incredibly hard journey with our son so far. He will be 7 in a few months and is the youngest of our two boys.
When I only had my eldest he was perfectly behaved and I blamed parents for 'naughty' kids.. boy was I wrong.
Since about 18months to 2yrs old our youngest started out with the worst of what appeared to be tantrums. From then up until now to cut a long story shorter we have a hard to describe love for animals, small children and teddies, to the point if there is a dog across the road he would try run right over and cuddle it. If we are in a pub and there is noise, in a queue in a theme park, or the class gets loud at school he will put his fingers in his ears and even hum sometimes to block things out. When he's cross he screams and I mean really screams and the same when he is frustrated. Education wise he is at least a year ahead of what he should be at school. I can ask him to do something 8+ times and he doesn't acknowledge me or ignores me and sometimes. He has an answer or an explanation for everything and sometimes when I explain something he will correct me as to why he is right and I dont always have an answer because he is right but shouldn't do what he is doing anyway. He struggles when children his age are being silly or saying things that kids say because I'm his words 'that just doesn't make sense'.
What I'm after is advice. Is this leaking towards Aspergers or something along the autism spectrum?
He is such a kind polite and clever little boy but behaviourally and listening wise my husband and at times myself can feel very frustrated and he can then become upset as he doesn't appear to understand what he has done.
Any advice is greatly appreciated and I dont care for judgement so hold back please.
So far we havent taken steps with the school or GP as it's only now becoming more apparent to us that there is an issue.
Many thanks
So I'm brand new on here and dont know where to start really.
Me and my husband have had a long and incredibly hard journey with our son so far. He will be 7 in a few months and is the youngest of our two boys.
When I only had my eldest he was perfectly behaved and I blamed parents for 'naughty' kids.. boy was I wrong.
Since about 18months to 2yrs old our youngest started out with the worst of what appeared to be tantrums. From then up until now to cut a long story shorter we have a hard to describe love for animals, small children and teddies, to the point if there is a dog across the road he would try run right over and cuddle it. If we are in a pub and there is noise, in a queue in a theme park, or the class gets loud at school he will put his fingers in his ears and even hum sometimes to block things out. When he's cross he screams and I mean really screams and the same when he is frustrated. Education wise he is at least a year ahead of what he should be at school. I can ask him to do something 8+ times and he doesn't acknowledge me or ignores me and sometimes. He has an answer or an explanation for everything and sometimes when I explain something he will correct me as to why he is right and I dont always have an answer because he is right but shouldn't do what he is doing anyway. He struggles when children his age are being silly or saying things that kids say because I'm his words 'that just doesn't make sense'.
What I'm after is advice. Is this leaking towards Aspergers or something along the autism spectrum?
He is such a kind polite and clever little boy but behaviourally and listening wise my husband and at times myself can feel very frustrated and he can then become upset as he doesn't appear to understand what he has done.
Any advice is greatly appreciated and I dont care for judgement so hold back please.
So far we havent taken steps with the school or GP as it's only now becoming more apparent to us that there is an issue.
Many thanks