It’s over I’m d I f f e r e n T and so r u

[AutismSupremacist]

I’m new and I realized it over people don’t like me at all just cause I’m ugly and autistic I’m wearid and sadSOME STATISTICS:
85~90% of autistics are unemployed and will never be able to have careers,
2/3 of autistic men die without even one relationship from start to finish,
And the autism suicide rate is 15x the general population's. Everyone thinks it's okay to discriminate against autistics, there is nothing good about this disorder. Nothing will ever change because this is the way I was born. I will never find love and will never be able to connect with others like they can with each other because of this retarded disorder.
90% of autistic kids get bullied in school and one study found that 63% of all bullied kids were Aspergers

 

[lunarious]

My friend. The saying goes: "Beauty starts from within".

Let me elaborate, from within .. myself or should I say Allah's self.

I’m new and I realized it over people don’t like me at all just cause I’m ugly and autistic I’m wearid and sad

I saw you are 18. And as far as i'm concerned you have The Right to be happy, you're awarded that Right by God and The Government and Human Right and International Law. You can choose to serve God also and endure.

Imam Ali (as) said being in The Mosque and praying is better than the ultimate goal, being Paradise. People were confused, and asked him, Imam; how do you mean? He replied in Paradise i have my pleasure, in The Mosque i have God's pleasure. ... So you can be drunk with The Love of God. You have the choise between two beers; External foul smelling beer, or Internal Divine beer. I've experience throgh a long journey plus Internal Beer.

Happiness doesn't come from External Beauty although somehow a person might be so depressed that only [sexuality and fornication and adultery; External Beauty] can make him or her happy 5 min. If I can be your friend but be Truthful with you and tell you anything and everything if that's my Destiny (e.g. you are ugly) then we start shining, from within. Individually. The facade falls because it is said Truthfully: "The Truth sets you free."

I know it's difficult to say The Truth as my recent thread about it, because people will hurt you by words or silence, silence primarily. I want to have people acknowledge my superiority, this Pain i experience is me doing my time in service as decreed by Allah. Pain has always one of two reasons: To rise your rank, or to pay debts of your sins. ... The Truth is healthpersonell around me has the physical and mental or divine flaws, and when I say that to them with good intention the best that has happened was that i got yelled on or submitted or Defenestrated. I was shining, they weren't, but I was submitted and subdued physically and mentally and emotionally.

SOME STATISTICS:
85~90% of autistics are unemployed and will never be able to have careers,
2/3 of autistic men die without even one relationship from start to finish,
And the autism suicide rate is 15x the general population's. Everyone thinks it's okay to discriminate against autistics, there is nothing good about this disorder. Nothing will ever change because this is the way I was born. I will never find love and will never be able to connect with others like they can with each other because of this retarded disorder.
90% of autistic kids get bullied in school and one study found that 63% of all bullied kids were Aspergers

Strength and Honor. Live and Die with Honor (edit) if that's your destiny.

 

[AutismSupremacist]

My friend. The saying goes: "Beauty starts from within".

Let me elaborate, from within .. myself or should I say Allah's self.

I saw you are 18. And as far as i'm concerned you have The Right to be happy, you're awarded that Right by God and The Government and Human Right and International Law. You can choose to serve God also and endure.



Happiness doesn't come from External Beauty although somehow a person might be so depressed that only [sexuality and fornication and adultery; External Beauty] can make him or her happy 5 min. If I can be your friend but be Truthful with you and tell you anything and everything if that's my Destiny (e.g. you are ugly) then we start shining, from within. Individually. The facade falls because it is said Truthfully: "The Truth sets you free."

I know it's difficult to say The Truth as my recent thread about it, because people will hurt you by words or silence, silence primarily. I want to have people acknowledge my superiority, this Pain i experience is me doing my time in service as decreed by Allah. Pain has always one of two reasons: To rise your rank, or to pay debts of your sins. ... The Truth is healthpersonell around me has the physical and mental or divine flaws, and when I say that to them with good intention the best that has happened was that i got yelled on or submitted or Defenestrated. I was shining, they weren't, but I was submitted and subdued physically and mentally and emotionally.


Strength and Honor. Live and Die with Honor (edit) if that's your destiny.

 

[AutismSupremacist]

Nah it’s over autism is a brain damaged disability that makes life hell

 

[lunarious]

Nah it’s over autism is a brain damaged disability that makes life hell

I know that autism is a Developmental disorder. Disbelievers will manipulate to you lie and get Defensive for other than God's sake. (edit) Disrupting your development.

But i'm telling you in God's name, live and die with Honor. If you Believe in God you Believe in The Hereafter where God will make you satisfied (as a God).

If that's your Destinity. If you are not Believer and Monotheist. This discussion is over (edit) that's cruel. I apologize. But try to understand I don't like wasteful speech.

 

[JayCee]

By what standard do you measure these things ? Ugliness ?Happiness ?" "requiring"another human ? . Often people are normally attracted to people whom , already appear to be happy . What things do you focus on ? or maybe have a hobby or a special interest in ? . How do you or anyone rate the degree of ugliness? If one of your arms is missing ? are you then ugly ? beauty has been said to be in the eye of the beholder .but if you are blind, then by what standard do you see beauty . These are things I had faced as my life went on...or concepts or ideas based on these questions .
If ,perhaps say you are maybe a Ant , For instance, And all those other Ants may look different or better than you ( as a Ant ) . And if there are no other Ants for you to compare to ? Then there can be no comparison . So that one Ant is a perfect example of a Ant .
Cause there are NO other Ants .
It is said , that I read on other sites about Autism , If you meet one Autistic person, You have only met one Autistic person. (These are just random thoughts on this thread)

 

[Cloudy Stuart]

I’m new and I realized it over people don’t like me at all just cause I’m ugly and autistic I’m wearid and sadSOME STATISTICS:
85~90% of autistics are unemployed and will never be able to have careers,
2/3 of autistic men die without even one relationship from start to finish,
And the autism suicide rate is 15x the general population's. Everyone thinks it's okay to discriminate against autistics, there is nothing good about this disorder. Nothing will ever change because this is the way I was born. I will never find love and will never be able to connect with others like they can with each other because of this retarded disorder.
90% of autistic kids get bullied in school and one study found that 63% of all bullied kids were Aspergers

This is why I write comedies. You can either laugh or cry and I think I have cried enough. With me I have the added difficulty of being accident prone. I made a video recently about two of my crazy books and the editing turned out like a sinking ship. But I just set it free on YouTube, like a disaster looking for somewhere to happen. I was reluctant to show it on this forum, (or any forum for that matter,) but maybe now is the time.

 

[Outdated]

This is why I write comedies. You can either laugh or cry and I think I have cried enough.

That is something most in my generation were taught as small children but this seems to be lacking today, more so in some societies than others.

Happiness is a choice. You can decide to be happy with what you've got - or - you can keep comparing yourself to people better off than yourself and spend your whole life being miserable and resentful.

The choice is yours.

 

[Wizardry]

Happiness is a choice. You can decide to be happy with what you've got - or - you can keep comparing yourself to people better off than yourself and spend your whole life being miserable and resentful.

The choice is yours.

It's true that one can choose to make the best of one's circumstances or not, but happiness itself is a state that emerges as a result of well-being and contentment. It's not purely mindset-driven

If we assume that happiness really is a choice, that means that anybody can be happy with any set of life circumstances, and if they're not happy, their mindset is to blame rather than anything else. It then logically follows that every single adverse event people can experience in their lives is trivial and not worth caring about, because they could just choose to be happy anyway.

Being held hostage for 30 years in someone's basement? Just choose to be happy with what you've got bro. Stuck in a physically and emotionally abusive relationship? Turn that frown upside down because happiness is a choice. Living with excruciating chronic pain? Just change that negative mindset and it'll all be fine.

If happiness is literally just a choice then justice doesn't matter, human rights don't matter, "quality of life" doesn't matter, opportunities don't matter, access to healthcare, food and shelter don't matter, having loved ones doesn't matter, and the concept of striving for a fulfilling life is incoherent, because fulfillment is all about mindset and completely independent of external circumstances.

If happiness is a choice then clinical depression is a farce. They're just choosing misery instead of happiness.

Do you really believe all of this?

 

[lunarious]

It's true that one can choose to make the best of one's circumstances or not, but happiness itself is a state that emerges as a result of well-being and contentment. It's not purely mindset-driven

God is Generous

If we assume that happiness really is a choice, that means that anybody can be happy with any set of life circumstances, and if they're not happy, their mindset is to blame rather than anything else. It then logically follows that every single adverse event people can experience in their lives is trivial and not worth caring about, because they could just choose to be happy anyway.

That's exactly the case. A man called _________ lived in Barrel and Laughed against Alexander The Great. Alexander The Great payed Homage.

Being held hostage for 30 years in someone's basement? Just choose to be happy with what you've got bro. Stuck in a physically and emotionally abusive relationship? Turn that frown upside down because happiness is a choice. Living with excruciating chronic pain? Just change that negative mindset and it'll all be fine.

I'm INFP today. I was ISTJ. As ISTJ i was as any ASD suffering, living well with my tasks and suffering well, i liked it. I remember saying to people and The doctor: Give me stick. Give me commands. Don't give me carrot, carrot won't work. And 2018 I was Defenestrated. That was the start of their end. Now i'm enjoying luxory as INFP and it's a struggel to Force myself back to ISTJ.

They get what they ask for. God is also Generous.

If happiness is literally just a choice then justice doesn't matter, human rights don't matter, "quality of life" doesn't matter, opportunities don't matter, access to healthcare, food and shelter don't matter, having loved ones doesn't matter, and the concept of striving for a fulfilling life is incoherent, because fulfillment is all about mindset and completely independent of external circumstances.

If happiness is a choice then clinical depression is a farce. They're just choosing misery instead of happiness.

Do you really believe all of this?

I Believe God loves you.

 

[Something05]

I’m new and I realized it over people don’t like me at all just cause I’m ugly and autistic I’m wearid and sadSOME STATISTICS:
85~90% of autistics are unemployed and will never be able to have careers,
2/3 of autistic men die without even one relationship from start to finish,
And the autism suicide rate is 15x the general population's. Everyone thinks it's okay to discriminate against autistics, there is nothing good about this disorder. Nothing will ever change because this is the way I was born. I will never find love and will never be able to connect with others like they can with each other because of this retarded disorder.
90% of autistic kids get bullied in school and one study found that 63% of all bullied kids were Aspergers

Could you give a bit more detail about your problems, or particular situations where you think your autism was a problem for you?

 

[Alexej]

Firstly - welcome to the Forums.
We are quite a different bunch of folk here, different nationalities, from different parts of the world, and different life experiences.

DO hang around a while and get to know us - and learn from the life experiences that are shared eitts or in older posts.

85~90% of autistics are unemployed and will never be able to have careers,

there are a number of folk on this forum who have had jobs and careers.
Statistics do not tell the whole story. I was late in life diagnosed so my statistic will not be in the stats you are quoting.

2/3 of autistic men die without even one relationship from start to finish,

Yes - it is harder for autistic men to find a relationship but not impossible.
The folk on this Forum give evidence both ways.

And the autism suicide rate is 15x the general population's.

yes the suicide rate is higher - 15x seems high but I cant find the stats I have read.

Everyone thinks it's okay to discriminate against autistics,

I disagree with this statement - discrimination is not OK

 

[Lou Laurinen]

Firstly - welcome to the Forums.
We are quite a different bunch of folk here, different nationalities, from different parts of the world, and different life experiences.

DO hang around a while and get to know us - and learn from the life experiences that are shared eitts or in older posts.


there are a number of folk on this forum who have had jobs and careers.
Statistics do not tell the whole story. I was late in life diagnosed so my statistic will not be in the stats you are quoting.

Yes - it is harder for autistic men to find a relationship but not impossible.
The folk on this Forum give evidence both ways.


yes the suicide rate is higher - 15x seems high but I cant find the stats I have read.

I disagree with this statement - discrimination is not OK

Just going to jump in here, because I agree, and your post did a great job pointing out that the statistics provided do indeed not tell the whole story.

I'll provide some "statistics" of my own:

I'm a 31-year-old autistic woman who was diagnosed in childhood.
I have a career. I work two jobs, actually. My partner, who is an autistic man, also has a career. Note that I said "partner." We are getting married on Sunday. Both of us have been in other relationships previously, I've had another serious relationship in the past, and he has had a boyfriend in the past.

I fully agree that discrimination is not ok. And yes, a lot of us get bullied. I've been relentlessly bullied for most of my life. I've just gotten smarter about choosing the people I voluntarily interact with, which has diminished this.

I've said this before on here, but an autism diagnosis is not a death sentence. Sure, there are challenges that come with it, but autistic people are still capable of living happy, successful, fulfilling lives, finding love, and having careers.
I recognize that the original post in this thread was probably a reflection of trauma, which I sympathize with, but sweeping generalizations about autistic people or NTs don't usually go well on here.

*This was directed at OP, not you, @Alexej

 

[Azeth]

Firstly. Welcome to the forum.

Secondly. Coming in like a battering ram with stuff like this, is not going to help anyone. Let alone yourself, @AutismSupremacist.

I will not deny there is going to be some kinda stigma about us, that'll come from the ignorant. But not everyone on the planet will be this way. But to echo what's already said. Alot of how one personally deals with this, let alone anything else, is purely mindset. Whether you are the ND or a NT interacting with a ND.

Dumping on yourself will not solve anything. It's only going to end up being self-fulfilling.

Also. Neurological divergence has nothing to do with external appearance. This isn't Down Syndrome, a crippling physical disability, or having a stroke. It's Autism.

Give yourself more grace in this world of confusion.