I think I’ve figured it out

[BewilderedPerson]

My problem isn’t that I’m without value, my problem is that I don’t always feel or see that I have value.

 

[tree]

How you feel is definitely related to what you tell yourself about yourself.

 

[lunarious]

I used to call myself donkey, which is Harsh in .. where i come from. Before that I used to punish myself with sit-ups

Today I may do things as buying Negative soda, not bad soda because it makes me stronger.

Negative ≠ bad

Reality: I'm sleeping all the time, unlike before. Edit: I'm old fat an lazy, i look forward to remedy that.

 

[lunarious]

My problem isn’t that I’m without value, my problem is that I don’t always feel or see that I have value.

When you "see" yourself you are, in fact, weak. ... i mean ASD don't see themselves, but ASD is not to be cured, right?

 

[BewilderedPerson]

When you "see" yourself you are, in fact, weak. ... i mean ASD don't see themselves, but ASD is not to be cured, right?

How is one weak by seeing themself?

I do have value, just have to believe I do. I think I do, after this latest mental health crisis over someone who dumped me month.

When I collapsed at work yesterday and I so how many texts and tweets of support I got, that showed me I am loved, I do have worth.

 

[lunarious]

There are tons of arguments, and you do have worth, just we say in Iraq: "He whom doesn't have it can't give it".

Allistic have less content and saturation in their mind. They rely on "bodily" love.

I'm autist too, so i struggel with.... you know. Stay strong! And gentle.

 

[Thinx]

Reality: I'm sleeping all the time, unlike before. Edit: I'm old fat an lazy, i look forward to remedy that.

I wish I had the remedy for those 3 things too! Although recently I got quite thin, so that's a start, but it was due to a stomach op. Being lazy is more a comfortable state of mind, for me, but how to tackle old age? That's a puzzler.