Sorry this is long.
I feel like an idiot but also that I was ambushed by one of my GPs (group practice). I got a private report which I hoped would encourage my gp to advocate for me in getting funding for an NHS referral. I posted the report to the GP I discussed that aspergers with. I asked them to read it and then make an appointment for me to discuss it. I knew it would be a hard appointment and was going to ask for a double session.
Last week I made an appointment with a different GP and my mum came. We were going to discuss a physical issue. When I got there the GP said they'd received the report that morning and she read it. I said I wasn't there about the report. My mum wouldn't be there for that appointment on aspergers. She ploughed on anyway. It was a disaster because I wasn't ready to discuss the report. It was painful and because I was surprised I didn't tell her to stop.
Ended up agreeing that I didn't need a referral (I now realise of course I have one and they are arguing about funding, that there was no support anyway, that I just need to try to make friends. She also mixed up the physical issues we did want to discuss.
It's possible I would have had the same outcome with a proper appointment but I'd have felt better.
I feel like an idiot but also that I was ambushed by one of my GPs (group practice). I got a private report which I hoped would encourage my gp to advocate for me in getting funding for an NHS referral. I posted the report to the GP I discussed that aspergers with. I asked them to read it and then make an appointment for me to discuss it. I knew it would be a hard appointment and was going to ask for a double session.
Last week I made an appointment with a different GP and my mum came. We were going to discuss a physical issue. When I got there the GP said they'd received the report that morning and she read it. I said I wasn't there about the report. My mum wouldn't be there for that appointment on aspergers. She ploughed on anyway. It was a disaster because I wasn't ready to discuss the report. It was painful and because I was surprised I didn't tell her to stop.
Ended up agreeing that I didn't need a referral (I now realise of course I have one and they are arguing about funding, that there was no support anyway, that I just need to try to make friends. She also mixed up the physical issues we did want to discuss.
It's possible I would have had the same outcome with a proper appointment but I'd have felt better.