I ended up jailed 4 times!

[John Doe]

Blah.

 

[tree]

Sounds pretty confusing & chaotic.
Nobody to depend on.

 

[Southern Discomfort]

Yeah that does sound like a confusing month you've had. I hope you'll have an easier time from now on.

 

[Elemental]

Sometimes when we're totally wrapped up in our own stuff that we feel strongly about, we can forget how our words & actions can look or seem to other people & the cause and effect that can follow on from that can seem confusing too. We have to try & learn from such I think. Good Luck here.

 

[ancusmitis]

I know we're told to always say sorry to people whom we've wronged, but when the person doesn't want to talk to you any more it causes more problems than it solves.

advertisements I had put on Gumtree back when I wanted to locate my ex.

I'm sorry, but this is a bit of a red flag to me. You described two, three instances where you got into trouble for trying to contact people. This behavior is causing you problems, and it also looks very bad to other people. I don't think you have harmful intent, but other people can't see that. Sometimes, when people are in your past, it's because they aren't in your future. This can be hard to accept, but it is the way of things.

 

[FreeDiver]

I can tell you exactly what landed you in jail. You are stalking these people. STOP! Break ties with them and don't contact those people ever again. In other words. WALK AWAY! And don't look back.

 

[Ste11aeres]

You need to move on.

 

[ancusmitis]

I understand these two women felt awkward regarding me having feelings for them but their response was very uncaring in my view.

If you were nasty enough to them on Facebook that you got jailed, that's pretty phenomenal. That doesn't happen for just anything. Once it hits that point, it is too late to say that it's "50/50." This is your behavior now, not theirs.

 

[Elemental]

. It could be the case I screwed up.

Like they say "**** happens" The main thing is we have to try to learn from it & work towards it not happening again. I got put in jail when I was 28; did half of a three months sentence & really, it turned my life around a bit because y'know...there are many better things we can do than that eh.