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How to get in a relationship when you do not like group events?

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Brian39WV

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Hello, my name is Brian. I am 38 and live in the United States. I will be blunt. Group activities and social events are just not for me. I am not really able to handle them at all anymore. That is ok. I do not miss them. My one problem is my biggest goal in life is to be in a relationship someday.

I guess my question is whether it is possible or not for someone like me to get into a romantic relationship even though I only like hanging out with people in a one-on-one situation. I am just not built for group events.

The only way I would ever meet a potential date is either online or on a dating app so that part is not an issue. I guess I am just hoping there are women out there who will be ok with me not being able to do group events.
 
Brian39WV said:
Hello, my name is Brian. I am 38 and live in the United States. I will be blunt. Group activities and social events are just not for me. I am not really able to handle them at all anymore. That is ok. I do not miss them. My one problem is my biggest goal in life is to be in a relationship someday.

I guess my question is whether it is possible or not for someone like me to get into a romantic relationship even though I only like hanging out with people in a one-on-one situation. I am just not built for group events.

The only way I would ever meet a potential date is either online or on a dating app so that part is not an issue. I guess I am just hoping there are women out there who will be ok with me not being able to do group events.
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Oh it's certainly possible to date even if you don't like social activities. It does mean though that the pool of folks that would be a good fit for you will be reduced. Honestly though if you are up front about it from the start and you are patient you'll at the very least be able to find dates though the apps. I've also found that folks in general our age, late 30's/40's are calming down in life and don't want to go out and do group activities. More interested in the nest they've built.
 
JayLapointe said:
Oh it's certainly possible to date even if you don't like social activities. It does mean though that the pool of folks that would be a good fit for you will be reduced. Honestly though if you are up front about it from the start and you are patient you'll at the very least be able to find dates though the apps. I've also found that folks in general our age, late 30's/40's are calming down in life and don't want to go out and do group activities. More interested in the nest they've built.
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Thanks, I guess here I am looking for someone on here or online, or on dating apps. I am just looking for someone who wants to get to know me and wants to let me get to know them. I really hope I can get the chance to start chatting with someone.
 
Advice - Discussing other topics on other types of threads would help people see whether you and themselves seem to have potential for being compatible or not. Common interests, passions and hobbies and also common world views are significant factors in deciding whether to date someone or not.
 
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